Is online dating success or failure?

@polachicago (18716)
United States
November 29, 2006 3:24pm CST
I don't believe that anyone can find soul mate on line. Many of my friend did and end up with nusty divorce.
33 responses
@honestabe (396)
• United States
30 Nov 06
Just depends on how hard you look I think. If you just go to some crummy chatroom you won't find love more than likely.
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I never like chatrooms.
@ru88en (2997)
• Philippines
29 Nov 06
Yes, from the point of view of the website owner, it's there great money maker.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
9 Dec 06
yes, I could see your point
• India
11 Dec 06
yes online dating is not sucessful it is only time pass
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
11 Dec 06
???????
@forfein (2507)
29 Nov 06
Sometimes it works! A friend of ours has done it, and they are married.. Look at it this way.... You live in a small town.... there are maybe 20 - 30 girls that you may fancy!! You go further afield... to the next town.. another 20 or 30 that makes a total of 60 girls that you maybe interested in... You go to a City....... Count goes up..... maybe 200???? You go on the Internet............. 25,000,000 Hhhhhhhmmmmmmm Maybe it might work?
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
29 Nov 06
I see your ponit. Makes sens.
@forfein (2507)
29 Nov 06
Thanks
• India
11 Dec 06
Online Dating - Online Dating
ur calculation is so good ,attractive and nice . but i am not agree with u . for getting one patner i don't think so i have to search 25, 000,000 people .
@ghazal2k5 (920)
• India
11 Dec 06
iam never going for online dating.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
11 Dec 06
good for you
@sonix007 (275)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 06
SUCCESS 100%
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Why are you so sure about?
@kesfylstra (1868)
• United States
10 Dec 06
Well my cousin is marrying her online man at the end of the month, and I really hope it works out for them. She's moving from New Jersey to Alaska for him! YIKES!
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
11 Dec 06
opps Alaska? I am not sure I would do it...
@milott (2646)
• India
11 Dec 06
I agree with you that finding soul mates online is the worst thing one could do to find their life partner at least. It could be used for fun instead but not find one's life partner because it will not work out because without knowing someone real time, it will always be a waste of time and money, etc for those who use them.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Yes, I think it is harder than in real life. My friend just get divorce(marriage last less than one year/from on line match maker)
@metong (655)
• Philippines
10 Dec 06
sometimes success, maybe 1% out of 100.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
10 Dec 06
yes, sometimes it looks like meat market....
• India
11 Dec 06
u always belive on fact what u belive . i think u are in right direction .
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
11 Dec 06
I guess you did not read my question. I am not using dating service, because I am with someone for over 9 years. I aks question just because I am curious.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
10 Dec 06
for me, online relationships will hardly be any close to a successful relationship. it won't be as good as meeting them in person, having a normal relationship, dating, and all other things sweethearts do.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
10 Dec 06
yes, hard to imagine...
@sonix007 (275)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 06
SUCCESS 100 %!!!!!!!!!!!
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Why are you so sure about?
@zarden (107)
• Philippines
11 Dec 06
no i dont think so, cause i found my bf here and weve been together for 2yrs. and we still keep on getting stronger and loving each other more and more.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Such a nice respond...:)
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
10 Dec 06
I just don't see how you can be involved with someone online. I want to meet someone if I am going to date him. I have had a lot of mean ask if I want to get involved with them. It's to confussing for me online.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
10 Dec 06
Yes, I see your point..........
@annihilus (2181)
• Italy
29 Nov 06
I don't think online dating is so good!
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
10 Dec 06
why not???
@zgb_0001 (1381)
• Pakistan
29 Nov 06
I have neve seen any successful story. I cannot believe it.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
9 Dec 06
I don't .....but many we do not know...
• United States
10 Dec 06
I found my soulmate online. I wouldn't trade him for this entire world. 6 years and going strong!
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
10 Dec 06
I coudn't be more happy for you...
@blueman (16509)
• India
29 Nov 06
i think in some sense both.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
11 Dec 06
I like the way you think...:)
@theyaume (196)
• Canada
10 Dec 06
Most of the time, online dating leads to failure as we tend to idealize the person whom we are talking to. I see that they have been some success coming from online dating, but I would prefer to not look for our soulmate actively there.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
10 Dec 06
I agree with idealization.
• United States
10 Dec 06
I dont agree with online dating!!!! its not Quite normal!!! =)
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
10 Dec 06
why it is not normal?