If you have a lover but you meet someone better, what to do?

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An unstable heart will always encounter "better people". You know, "better" is not hard to find, just meticulously observing, you will see that the surrounding boys are more mature than their boyfriends, the surrounding girls are all sexier than their girlfriends. Psychologist Robert Sternberg once said that "the heat in love lasted only for a certain period of time. After this time has passed, some people are not as intense as before, but there will also be people who feel a lack of love." The brand new/fresh feeling is like a poisonous snake sticking out its tongue, enticing people to show their greed, causing you to start discovering "better people" around you. Finding a girlfriend is like having to choose a tree in a dense forest, if you have already chosen then run away from the forest immediately, do not be the one who has chosen the person you love but still towards the girls other around... So, when your feelings have been shaken, think again, is there a conflict between the two couples that can't be resolved, is there really no more affection or not, or Because you are bored and frustrated, so you will find a "better person"?????? - If it's because you no longer have affection, then you should thank that you two met, then calmly say goodbye. - And if it's because you're depressed, every time you choose to surrender to temptation, you'll never feel happy with both intimacy and promise. Because of the meaning of "lover", it has never been more simple than that, because it is a fairy tale we can trust between countless fairy tales in this world! When you put your lover on the scale to compare, your love for you has become a plot for the sake of it. At that time, you also became a chess player, today you can win a game because you meet the "better person", tomorrow can also lose because the opponent has better chess. - If you have a cat for three years, it will not be possible because a cat meeting on the street with better fur will throw away your domestic cat, because you have considered it a family member. - If you can throw it away easily, then in the future, you'll never have another family member, only one cat after another. In the past, I always thought that if we fell in love with each other and started to get bored, we should take a break. Until recently, I realized that when love fades, that's when it begins to truly exist. Naturally, you can choose to let go, find new love, but the price is that you will never get rid of that loop