Marriage Life: Who Will Take Care of Housework?
By Sunshine
@Femiyuniar (30)
Bandung, Indonesia
June 5, 2020 7:57am CST
In our society many men think the housework is not their responsibility. So what everything his need will servant by his wife. Also some women tend to choose the alpa men to secure herself and they banish man who want to able in housework. This is seems like unbalanced relationship because the two of them feel their superior or inferior. The both of them can't independent, the women needs his money, also the men need women help to take care of them.
this is seems like problematic, i think both gender should be able to take care of themselves independently. What do you think about this?
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8 responses
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
5 Jun 20
I agree. Many years ago, the women tended the household while the men tended the lands, but that's not the way anymore. Women should know how to tend the land, and men should know how to tend the house. This way they can share responsibilities and have a happier marriage.
Resentment happens when one part of a relationship is unbalanced.
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@kobesbuddy (74925)
• East Tawas, Michigan
5 Jun 20
This is exactly how it's done at our home and we both agree it's the best way for us.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
5 Jun 20
These days things have changed and both male and female take the equal responsibility
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@isweartokira (3465)
• United States
5 Jun 20
yes, housework should be split between the couple. it depends on schedules, but both should be willing to do their part.
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@jayanth_77 (7180)
• India
5 Jun 20
Both husband and wife should share house hold responsibility .
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@BellaEdward (215)
• India
6 Jun 20
In olden days, onlu husband used to go out, work and earn. Like in my grand mom's times. Then she used to do every household chores herself no matter how difficult those were. But now this generation majority of husband and wife started working and earning. So its better to share the household chores too.
Someone still loves being the housewife along with having a professional career.
So, it comes down to this. Its personal choices. And its better before marriage the partners be open about how they expect to live. If they have common interests or have willingness to adapt, the better. Else its best not to get married to each other.
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@nawala123 (20852)
• Indonesia
5 Jun 20
Marriage is all about commitment, cooperation, partnership, loyalty and sense of belonging
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
6 Jun 20
In current days all most all male and female taking responsibilities qual..no difference we see now.
