The Figure of Mother

Bandung, Indonesia
June 6, 2020 8:56am CST
Left by people you are love the most seems like losing pieces mine of yours. Mother is foundation in our home, losing her for the rest of your life just changed the situation. I miss her so much. she left me 4 years ago, mylife seems chaos after that. Im not to close with my father. Im still twenty's and i still need mother figure in my life. And today im so broken and im not have purpose in mylife. How to be strong in situation like that?
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@nawala123 (20852)
• Indonesia
6 Jun 20
I am so sorry to hear that. I love my mom so much and she is my priority in my life, beside my wife n kiddos
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• Bandung, Indonesia
6 Jun 20
No problem, yes we will love our mother no matters we are married or not because without her we're nothing, right?
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@Shauibee (610)
6 Jun 20
Hi Sunshine. What a lovely name! Losing a loved one is not that easy. Let yourself grieve if you have to. But it should have an expiration. I mean we can not be sad forever. Right? I am sure your mom would not like to see you her princess unhappy. For a start, maybe think of what your mom would like you to be, what she loves most about you, what made her proud of you. What I am saying is be the person that your mom loves you for who you are and wants you to be. Talking to your best friends about your grief might also help. But it is best to lift all your pains through prayers. I hope I was able to contribute something to ease the pain. Remember you are loved by the One who created us.
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• Bandung, Indonesia
6 Jun 20
Thank you for beautiful words dear:) yes maybe i must go ahead but sometimes i need the figure of parents, i was jealous to my friends who has good family. I just have my father and brother, but my father decided to married again without told me, its suck now me and my brother like strangers in our home. I need somebody to love and somebody love me as family.
• China
6 Jun 20
I think of my teacher as a relative. I left my mother when I was little. i felt lonely four years.parting is a very sad thing. you can make friends. this may reduce sadness a little.
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• Bandung, Indonesia
6 Jun 20
Gratefully i had friends who take care of me, but sometimes i need more than that. Its different feelings...
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@a_jerobon (2304)
• Eldoret, Kenya
6 Jun 20
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I could cheer you up but I dont know how. Such a loss can truly leave you not knowing how to continue living. What I know about grief is that you don't have to forget about her, you just learn to live knowing that she is gone physically but lives in your heart and memory. With time, you learn to be okay and grateful for the time you spent together and all the memories you share.
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• Bandung, Indonesia
6 Jun 20
Thank you, this enough to cheer me up :) yes she still live in my heart forever..
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@erictsuma (9726)
• Mombasa, Kenya
6 Jun 20
Yes Mother's love is different from father's love and also mother is a foundation figure of family and when she is not there you will definitely miss her and I understand you very we but you must go ahead with your life and be caregious and everything will be fine.
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@Mnridwan (191)
• Indonesia
6 Jun 20
I'm so sorry to hear that. I know it's really hard for you. But, you gotta keep it up and be stronger
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
6 Jun 20
You are right in our language mother is home minister. She never demands anything but fullfill everyone demands everyday. Sorry for you left your mother nobody can get the place of mother she is god for us but now a days most of the people not understand this thing.
@jayanth_77 (7180)
• India
7 Jun 20
I am sorry for the loss of your beloved mother. A mother's love is pure. She will always try to protect her children and keep them happy.
@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
7 Jun 20
So sad to hear, yes each one life our mothers play a big role.. I understand your feelings, share your feelings with your friends and other family members.. It give good relaxation.. Take care of you.
@Shunnan (2106)
6 Jun 20
oh sorry to heard about your story it's difficult for you i know.but it's happened already so we cannot change it Forgive her and move forward for something that will help you improve your life without her.Focus on positive things.Time will come she will realized it she is still your mother. Be with someone whom you know will guide you grow in this life. Your Aunties or relatives close to you.
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@rere_14 (40)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
7 Jun 20
So sorry to hear that. Keep going, forgive your sad heart, or sad memory and forgive your father. Talk frequently with your self, what do you want, and release what you feel even that bring your tears down. It maybe can heal you. Send virtual hug for you, Sist!