i am 35 years old, how young of a woman do you think i could date??

@MrEricMc (157)
United States
November 29, 2006 10:06pm CST
I think I have a 19 year old who wants to date me. is this too young??
22 responses
@nandans (1161)
• India
30 Nov 06
age doesn't matter that much..
@MrEricMc (157)
• United States
30 Nov 06
thanks.
@MrEricMc (157)
• United States
30 Nov 06
thanks.
• India
30 Nov 06
you must be an lucky man.... if she really wants that!
@MrEricMc (157)
• United States
30 Nov 06
well, im hoping im as lucky as i think i am!!
@JoeyCa (1810)
• Belgium
30 Nov 06
anything from 25 onwards is fine I guess :-)) and of course I give you... a very big hug and many sweet kisses! Feel free to visit my profile or have a look at one of my discussions which might interest you....
@MrEricMc (157)
• United States
30 Nov 06
well, thanks for the hug and kisses!!
@doniker (493)
• United States
30 Nov 06
hey if you can get it, go for it. Sure she could be immature but think of her as a raw piece of clay you can mold your way. Besides, younger women have less "excess baggage" (for example: ex-husbands, kids, debts)
@MrEricMc (157)
• United States
30 Nov 06
nice. i like the way you think!!
• Pakistan
30 Nov 06
23
@MrEricMc (157)
• United States
30 Nov 06
thanks, but how did you arrive at that number?
@kawillow74 (1417)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I have this thing about age maybe it could be because my dad married a woman (I will call her ya right) 20 yrs younger my mom married a man 7 yrs. younger.And then you have my brother who got married to a girl she is 7 years younger. I hate it but hey if she is over 18 then that is your choice to do what you feel is right. Hopefully you 2 will have thing in common I am 32 and I don't think I would have things in common with a 19,20 year old.
@MrEricMc (157)
• United States
30 Nov 06
well, sounds like you have a bias against the age difference based on a family history. anything not working in those marriages or is it that you just dont like the idea?
• United States
30 Nov 06
yes i think this is to young i think you should only have a 8 year age between you.
@MrEricMc (157)
• United States
30 Nov 06
ok, but where did you come up with 8 yrs as an ok difference?
@rikpallav (1242)
• India
30 Nov 06
I think lot younger then 28 years old.... otherwise you might be in some awkward situation
@MrEricMc (157)
• United States
30 Nov 06
you can have awkward situations at any age group, but i know what you mean
• United States
30 Nov 06
I don't know...it all depends on you and on the girl! She is old enough for you to date! Yeah alot of people won't think it's okay but as long as it's legal go for it! I'm 23 and my bf is 37...we get along fine! Love it nothing but a number...who know's she may be the one for you!
@MrEricMc (157)
• United States
30 Nov 06
thanks for the comment.
@rawpoet (2047)
• United States
30 Nov 06
Personally, I don't think age matters, just as long as the person isn't underage. I was married for almost 10 years to a man who's 15 years older. It's what's in the heart.
@MrEricMc (157)
• United States
30 Nov 06
agreed. but i will find out what is in her heart later
@djbtol (5498)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I think 19 is too young. At 35 you are moving into another realm of life. Is she ready for that? Hard to know for sure.
@MrEricMc (157)
• United States
30 Nov 06
true, but she does seem pretty mature for her age. shes not some goofy kid whos still tryint to party all weekend and live the wild life.
• United States
1 Dec 06
to young - Picture of an old guy dating a young younger girl
I think it is too young... It normally never works out as well. It also looks kinda strange when you get older. lol. and if you think about it.. when she was born, you were 16. already driving and such. dont want to look like these people someday=P
@Desdemona (1305)
• Canada
1 Dec 06
Age really does not matter, however, do you believe you have many things in common with this 19 year old?
@lonewolfnan (4367)
• Canada
1 Dec 06
I am 46.My girlfriend is 28.She started the relationship about 5 years ago.We are very happy together.She did the asking...
@nvmbr75 (85)
• United States
1 Dec 06
Hmm, depends on how mature she is. And what it is that you both would want out of the relationship.
@DinaDi (60)
• United States
30 Nov 06
You "think" you have a 19 year old who wants to date you? Aren't you sure? The mere fact that you are asking if 19 is too young tells me that you may think it is. I've met 19 year olds that are very mature for their age, and I know 30 year olds that are very immature. Besides, it's just dating. Dating is fun and that's how you get to know someone anyhow, by being with that person doing something you both enjoy. Dating, to me, is going out with someone with no strings attached, to have a good time and find out what you both have in common. If it feels right, and you have a lot in common with each other, then go for it. If, after a few dates, you find yourself feeling "old" because of the age factor, then you've answered the question yourself.
@missyd79 (3438)
• United States
30 Nov 06
okay, I have nothing agianist age, because my step dad is 21 years older then my mom, thing is she is only 19. she is just out of high school and is just begining to get to know herself. Yes it's all in the heart and she may seem mature for her age, but you are at the point in your life where you are probably ready to settle down, yes she may say that she may want to settle down too, but I am just afraid like 4 years down the road and 2 kids later she will feel trapped and feel she did not get to be a "college" person. But only the future can tell, so you have to do what is right for yourself.
@charmness (124)
• China
30 Nov 06
I don`t think so. the age is not the obstruction between you and the girl whom you feel like.
@jaginfo2006 (1757)
• India
30 Nov 06
you are a very luckly man, make her happy.
@teja_vc (511)
• India
30 Nov 06
20 to 25 years can be better combination