A soft heart

August 8, 2020 12:51pm CST
I have been thinking too much lately. I can't even eat because of some emotional issues. I just can't accept that one of my friends doesn't tell stories anymore. I was shut up. I mean, he told me that it is not important to say anything about his life anymore. I respect him. But, it made me sad. People change. I need to accept that people change.
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5 responses
• Philippines
9 Aug 20
Talks to us instead. Maybe he's going through something and he doesn't wanted to tell stories. I hope you try to move on and be understanding.
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8 Aug 20
It will make you sad however, I think you should give him some space for him to realize your worth and he will come to his senses.
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9 Aug 20
@myklj999 Thank You!
9 Aug 20
@sweerie_banana if he goes for good then he is just not the "one" whether he is her boyfriend or just a friend. Him being distant might save her from having these same issues in the future, that is just my take on these situation in my life also.
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10 Aug 20
@sweerie_banana with your best friend or boyfriend?
@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
8 Aug 20
Is that your friend or your boyfriend?
@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 20
@shannybaby44 its complicated
9 Aug 20
@sophie09 that is what I was wondering too.
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• United States
10 Aug 20
I know the feeling. And it sucks. People change, but you feel as if you are kind of stationary in a sense (at least I feel like I am). I don't think I've change a lot since exiting high school. In small ways yes, but overall, I don't see a difference. Letting people go is a thing I had to struggle with. People do change and half of the time it seems overwhelming, sometimes pointless to even consider why. I wish I could say, "Give him a chance" but that's nonsensical. Just do you and let go, move forward because you need to worry about yourself. And no, that's not always a selfish attitude.
11 Aug 20
People and circumstances change. While this might make you sad consider that there might also be a change for the better in the future.