pregnancy test

@Janet357 (75651)
October 23, 2020 2:45am CST
I asked my husband to buy this pregnancy test kit or whatever you call it. I asked mothers how to use it. To be honest, I am quite nervous because I have programmed in my mind that I would not beget a child. My husband and I are both okay with or without a kid. But getting pregnant at age 40 for the first time, it is a very terrifying chapter of my life! I have been 2 weeks delayed with my menstruation and I have been experiencing dark spotting instead of my period which I had never experienced in my whole life. I always feel tired most of the time. I don't know anything about pregnancy but I just wish you mothers out there would enlighten me on this one.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
23 Oct 20
@Janet357 Sounds like the possibility of you being pregnant. I was 39 when I got pregnant. Sorry for me it was not meant to be.
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@Janet357 (75651)
24 Oct 20
oh and how many kids do you have? was it easy for you, the first one?
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
25 Oct 20
@Janet357 I had a miscarriage 7 1/2 to 10 weeks into my pregnancy so lost the baby and never had another one. I ended up on bed rest but my ex-husband when we were married did not understand what they meant.
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@Janet357 (75651)
25 Oct 20
@Hannihar oh sorry for this. You never got one. Did you marry again?
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• Shenzhen, China
23 Oct 20
How is the outcome of test?if you got it,congratulations to you,plus,you will suffer some annoying physical reaction,such as retch,dizzy,faint,but it only have last for a couple of month,then you will be well.I always accompany my wife when she got pregnant,so i went through the process.Good luck.
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@Janet357 (75651)
24 Oct 20
you are a very good husband. How many kids do you have?
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@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
23 Oct 20
That is so good of you. Your wife is lucky.
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• Shenzhen, China
25 Oct 20
@Janet357 ,just one kid.i want one more,but unable to afford.nowadays raising a kid cost very much in China.we have to reckon cost before make baby.
@LadyDuck (461681)
• Switzerland
23 Oct 20
Take the test, it's very easy and it takes 5 minutes. This could be only due to lack of ovulation, nothing serious.
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@LadyDuck (461681)
• Switzerland
25 Oct 20
@Janet357 Do not get too stressed, you need to be relaxed now.
@Janet357 (75651)
24 Oct 20
it was positive. it was beyond my expectation.
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@rakski (112924)
• Philippines
23 Oct 20
before we assumed anything, do the pregnancy test first.
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@rakski (112924)
• Philippines
24 Oct 20
@Janet357 yes, I read it. Congratulations!!! This will be a new journey to both you and your husband!!!!
@Janet357 (75651)
24 Oct 20
i did and it was positive.
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• India
23 Oct 20
Best wishes
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@Janet357 (75651)
24 Oct 20
thanks.
• India
24 Oct 20
@Janet357 welcome
@Hytton03 (5454)
• Philippines
23 Oct 20
Congrats if positive..
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@Janet357 (75651)
24 Oct 20
it is positive and thanks.
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@Hytton03 (5454)
• Philippines
24 Oct 20
@Janet357 congrats.
@Juliaacv (49034)
• Canada
23 Oct 20
Take the test, if it is positive, then go to see your doctor. A niece of mine just had a baby and she is 40 years old. Both her as well as the baby are healthy.
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@Janet357 (75651)
24 Oct 20
thank you. This lessens my fear somehow.
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@DianneN (247205)
• United States
23 Oct 20
I would definitely take the test and then immediately see your gynecologist. Good luck!!!!
@DianneN (247205)
• United States
24 Oct 20
@Janet357 Good luck!
@Janet357 (75651)
24 Oct 20
thanks Miss D. for this tip.
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@rhuenz (10646)
23 Oct 20
Oh my girl,hope your pregnant. Happy for you, Same here hubby and I don't have yet a kid,I am afraid to be late too. Well,just put your fears into prayers.
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@Janet357 (75651)
24 Oct 20
am pregnant. hope it is easy for me.
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@Overflowing (3710)
23 Oct 20
im pregnant and in the 3rd trimester,its our first child and we are very happy when we find out because we've wanting for a baby for long time.and now we are very careful..i thought before also that maybe i will nopt have a child,but God is so gracious for blessing us what we desire.im at my near 30..
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@Janet357 (75651)
24 Oct 20
you are still young. you can have a baby still. ak 40.