my girl friend and her baby father

October 31, 2020 4:46pm CST
I just confused, every time when am with my girlfriend she always talk about her baby father like praising him,so I just want advice because I have a feeling that when am not with her maybe they spend sometime together
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
1 Nov 20
welcome to mylot. I hope you can resolve your issue soon
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
2 Nov 20
@nawala123 (20852)
• Indonesia
2 Nov 20
do you have commitment with her?
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• United States
1 Nov 20
Could be, because sometimes when people have kids, and are apart, they still see each other. Just be careful.
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• Indonesia
2 Nov 20
accept your girlfriend as she is, and keep communicating everything, nothing to cover up, i'm sure there must be a bright spot because everything needs to be discussed.
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1 Nov 20
Yes there,s possibility they still make a meet behind you, but you must witness it by yourself. Or maybe she's indirectly stating that she doesn't want to continue the relationship with you
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@jdbces (1847)
• Philippines
1 Nov 20
Try to have an open communication. It sounds like a difficult situation for you.
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@kaylachan (58646)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
31 Oct 20
Have you confronted her on the issue? It's understandable that she might spend time with her baby's father, especially if she wants her child to know their father. But, if you're concerned she might have feelings for the guy, you need to talk to her about it. It's not right to string you along.
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• Florence, Colorado
31 Oct 20
I agree with others who posted here that you should ask her if she sees him at other times. I think you should also think about this. She was with him before she started seeing you so he is a part of her past, he is her baby's father so he will be in her life for some time. Hope these thoughts help you out.
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
1 Nov 20
She has a baby. Thst means she's not married. She bore a child out of wedlock. It simply shows she's not interested with you. Give her freedom to be with her baby's father. If you don't it would be a problem soon.
1 Nov 20
Thenk you
@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
2 Nov 20
@myklj999 I have assumed that for I have no clear indication that she's married. And how do you know then? Did you assume it too?
@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
2 Nov 20
@myklj999 And it is my presumption too for we never have divorce in our country.
@Adie04 (17360)
5 Nov 20
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5 Nov 20
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