On relationships

@Merliva (3539)
San Marino
December 9, 2020 1:23pm CST
RELATIONSHIPS are usually very important to some of us and i believe that is actually a good thing, many of us use mylot as a way to meet new people and i believe that's a good thing since i've met alot of nice people here. I truly believe in order for a relationship to last we have to hold on but not to tight, holding to someone to tight is just like holding onto sand to tight, when you hold the sand tight in your hands it slips through till theres not much left to hold on to. SOME of us might not admit it's true but we both know there's some truth in this entire paragraph that i just wrote. when you hold onto the sand without holding onto it tight, it stays in place and it's like relationships, i had a conversation with a gentle man and he pointed out, ''why should we fix whats not broken" i honestly like those words, i believe once you have respect for one another and give each other enough freedom then things will be okay. if you disagree let me know and if you agree let me know.
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@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
9 Dec 20
You can make some awesome friendships on here..the other not so much, but yes it takes a lot of work to keep a relationship going.
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• Peshawar, Pakistan
10 Dec 20
we all carry the energy of keeping relationships but we are now bit lazy to get it out
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@Merliva (3539)
• San Marino
10 Dec 20
indeed
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• Indonesia
10 Dec 20
I remember the song The Script "If You See Kay". It says "If you love someone enough you gotta set them free". I agree with you, and I think The Script agrees with you too. ha ha
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@Merliva (3539)
• San Marino
10 Dec 20
lol thanks so much
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• Indonesia
13 Dec 20
@myklj999 ow I just found out, it turns out there is another meaning behind it
@Spontaneo (14703)
• United States
10 Dec 20
Not sure.
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@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
10 Dec 20
Relationships are often very complicated.
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@Merliva (3539)
• San Marino
10 Dec 20
Exactly
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@Marwahkha (132)
• Peshawar, Pakistan
10 Dec 20
it is up to you weather you make it more pleasant or complicated.
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@Merliva (3539)
• San Marino
10 Dec 20
true
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• Indonesia
13 Dec 20
Mutual respect for each other is a point that I see, and that does not apply on this site as well in everyday life, it will always be appreciated. Thanks.
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@Merliva (3539)
• San Marino
18 Dec 20
i understand
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