Paranoid
By Misaki
@MisakiLydan (72)
January 18, 2021 3:55pm CST
Good morning community! Are you currently in a relationship or had been in a relationship? Do you experience the same thing, like, being paranoid that your partner might end up liking or loving someone else, then you are being left alone? Your negative thoughts are to the extent of killing the trust and assurance you are giving to your partner.
Have you experienced the same thing? If so, how did you deal with it, and is it really hard coping up with being paranoid? As for your own thought, this is normal right especially among young women who had been traumatized about being in a relationship and ended up heart broken.
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@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
18 Jan 21
I did when I was younger. Now I do not bother entering into a relationship if we cannot trust one another. I am too old for mind games. So when I married my husband, I made sure that love, trust, and respect are present in our relationship.
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@MisakiLydan (72)
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19 Jan 21
I adore you for that, congrats for finding real love and I hope both of you will stay stronger, loving, and happier.
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@star_disgate (779)
• Phoenix, Arizona
18 Jan 21
I do worry about that from time to time. My fiancé is an amazing man, and he has been hurt before. We spend so much time together I cannot see him hurting me like that, but then again, I worked the same hours as my second husband, at the same job. The only time we were ever apart, was the 10-minute walk to the corner market for drinks. He still managed to cheat.
So, seeing that and remembering that makes me worry a lot about my current relationship. But I have been with Larry longer than anyone else. I just hope it stays as great as it has been.
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@MisakiLydan (72)
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18 Jan 21
That is why some other people became paranoid because of such experienced or history of being cheated.
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@kaylachan (59019)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Jan 21
I think it's healty to feel it or a bit of jealsoy or paranoia in a relationship. As long as it's healthy and doesn't speed out of control.
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@Shavkat (137298)
• Philippines
20 Jan 21
@MisakiLydan It is given. Hopefully, they can open up soon. If not, they need to ask for help from a shrink.
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@MisakiLydan (72)
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20 Jan 21
Exactly but some people were having a hard time giving their full trust to a person due to some traumatic history
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
19 Jan 21
It's not paranoid. That's selfishness. Trust is the key word. Share it unconditionally and you will feel in return how happy you are for being trusted.
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@MisakiLydan (72)
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19 Jan 21
Indeed, but it will sometimes not be prevented especially to those people who suffered a lot of pain from this experience.
@ShyBear88 (59306)
• Sterling, Virginia
18 Jan 21
Being jealous some times yes but not trusting my husband is something I’ve never experienced. We have been married almost 11 years so I trust him a lot. I think he is more worried about me leaving him then me leaving him and so on.
@Deepizzaguy (95452)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
18 Jan 21
As of now I am not in a relationship.
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@Fa_Maverick (9463)
• Australia
21 Jan 21
Never been insecure because if they leave for someone else it is a problem with them not with me.
