What will be your reaction?
@allknowing (130063)
India
May 29, 2021 11:44pm CST
If you found yourself in the position that you see in the photo would you leave your boy friend/partner or just think that there is no harm in appreciating beauty
Would you be that magnanimous?
Image Credit:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted-boyfriend_meme
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21 responses
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
30 May 21
It's just fine with my wife because she has full confidence in herself and trusts me 100 %, she also fully understands that I know how to appreciate beauty
. When something like like this happens I go look back at her and we just smile or laugh together.
. When something like like this happens I go look back at her and we just smile or laugh together.6 people like this
@allknowing (130063)
• India
30 May 21
I would still feel uncomfortable if this is done in my presence despite having confidence in each other.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
31 May 21
@allknowing perhaps culture also plays a role in how we feel. Filipinos tend to treat things like that lightly, so I could go back to my wife and say things like " I'll buy you a dress like that " then laugh or " isn't she gorgeous? But I still like the one who takes care of my family , cooks well and makes me coffee in the morning"
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@RebeccasFarm (86787)
• United States
30 May 21
So if you see someone on the pole Louie, it will be okay
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@allknowing (130063)
• India
30 May 21
I agree with you and certainly not when the partner is around A thing of beauty is to be admired but not this way
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
30 May 21
It seems an uncivilized way to appreciate a beautiful girl. I would instruct my partner not to do so at public place.
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@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
30 May 21
I wouldn't react at all, being the leftmost person here...
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@allknowing (130063)
• India
30 May 21
@hora_fugit I would rather that you be the one who looks annoyed (Iol)
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@crossbones27 (48446)
• Mojave, California
30 May 21
See I would do that but would not be so jerkish I guess. I think most women expect you to look and actually had a couple girlfriends go hey what do you think about her? I think its a respect thing more than anything. The way that guy is doing it and the reaction of the girl can tell she thinks he does not respect her and she is probably right .
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@allknowing (130063)
• India
30 May 21
There are always two ways how a situation is taken.
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@florelway (23158)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 May 21
I'll pinch him or hit him lol. Didn't experience that anyway. Lol
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@allknowing (130063)
• India
30 May 21
I am with you on this. Appreciating beauty is one thing but in the kind of scenario that is shown here - an emphatic no.
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@allknowing (130063)
• India
30 May 21
Won't you give him a second chance? (lol)
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@arunima25 (85441)
• Bangalore, India
30 May 21
That's a lewd way and I would not be comfortable. Yes, beauty can be admired in a decent way and not this way. It's insulting for another woman and as a woman I am not okay with it.
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@allknowing (130063)
• India
30 May 21
Neither am I. Once my husband brought a recipe book from his woman colleague. I promptly asked him to return it and did not even open the book
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@arunima25 (85441)
• Bangalore, India
3 Jun 21
@allknowing Well, I wouldn't do that.Jealousy and being possessive is a part of an intimate relationship. But I need my space and I would give that to my spouse too. Unless it's breaking some code of trust and honesty.
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@Butterfingers (66585)
• India
30 May 21
Won't leave as long as they only appreciate
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@allknowing (130063)
• India
30 May 21
But doing that when the partner is around is not something I would encourage.
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@jefferson126 (3057)
• Shenzhen, China
30 May 21
In my case,i not ever show appreciations on some lady under the eyes of wife,I knew she hate that behavior.
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@allknowing (130063)
• India
30 May 21
When the partner is around it is bad manners to do what this guy in the picture is doing1 person likes this
@jefferson126 (3057)
• Shenzhen, China
30 May 21
@allknowing ,what will you do under the condition you are alone,
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@RebeccasFarm (86787)
• United States
30 May 21
I absolutely love this meme
I have confidence and would not care a bit and would also laugh
I have confidence and would not care a bit and would also laugh1 person likes this
@allknowing (130063)
• India
30 May 21
That is giving too long a rope. Don't you think? (lol)
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@RebeccasFarm (86787)
• United States
31 May 21
@allknowing But good riddance to him lol
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@RebeccasFarm (86787)
• United States
30 May 21
By the way, this is the best discussion on myLot today lol
Then again, if he is doing this, I do not care to lose him..get lost haha
Then again, if he is doing this, I do not care to lose him..get lost haha@allknowing (130063)
• India
30 May 21
Don't be so harsh on him Ocean. Give him a second chance (lol)
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@RebeccasFarm (86787)
• United States
31 May 21
@allknowing I will give him a chance with the heel of my boot
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@RasmaSandra (73603)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
31 May 21
I was lucky I never had to face that problem, We went most everywhere hand in hand.
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@allknowing (130063)
• India
31 May 21
In the picture they to are hand in hand and so......................
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@1creekgirl (40576)
• United States
30 May 21
We've been married many, many years and my husband still loves to look at a pretty lady. I've never been threatened by that. He says he knows where home is, lol.
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