A girl with Vitiligo

@FaruMesh (3508)
India
July 21, 2021 4:56am CST
Just saw an interview on YouTube, a girl in her mid twenties, has a disease of Vitiligo. She said in her school days her classmates used to call her by nicknamea 'cow, zebra and many more'. She used to cover her face with her hairs and scarfs and use to wear full covered dress whenever she goes out. She was too conscious about her skin color. Being a teenager she used to get fed up easily. But gradually she encouraged herself and thought why should she doing this, taking medicine for her entire life still not sure of total cure. Actually nobody would take a stand for you until you take a stand for yourself. If anyone tells someone you can't have a normal life because you have Vitiligo or whatever disease maybe, prove them wrong, because it is easy to give up. Now she has a decent job,happily married and having a normal life. Sometimes life will be pulling you back but it's your life you have to stand for you.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247216)
• United States
22 Jul 21
Poor thing. Having a skin disorder is every woman’s nightmare, but glad she stood up for herself. Too many mean bullies in our world.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247216)
• United States
22 Jul 21
@FaruMesh I agree. People like that are mean and nasty without compassion.
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Faru Mesh
@FaruMesh (3508)
• India
22 Jul 21
It would have been great if people stretch their hands instead of criticizing her
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Faru Mesh
@FaruMesh (3508)
• India
22 Jul 21
@DianneN You are right, when will this world change for good
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Valerie J. Routhieaux
@just4him (309147)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Jul 21
I'm glad she took control of her life. I agree with you. We need to stand up for ourselves. No one else will until we do.
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Valerie J. Routhieaux
@just4him (309147)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Jul 21
@FaruMesh Yes, we do need to change ourselves.
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Faru Mesh
@FaruMesh (3508)
• India
21 Jul 21
@just4him If you don't mind have you ever changed for good
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Faru Mesh
@FaruMesh (3508)
• India
21 Jul 21
Yes really happy for her, we can see people hiding when something bad happens to them, we have to change ourselves.
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Notlilie
@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 21
I have a co-worker with Vitiligo. She's not covering them up. I guess she accepted it.
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Faru Mesh
@FaruMesh (3508)
• India
23 Jul 21
That's good, it's just a skin disorder, it's all about the mindset of the people
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marguicha
@marguicha (216602)
• Chile
21 Jul 21
I have not heard that vitiligo can be cured. But some people wear make up so it doesn´t show too much. It is high time that something was done to erradicate a bigger illness of our times: the bullying. Name calling can be more harmful than a skin trouble.
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marguicha
@marguicha (216602)
• Chile
25 Jul 21
@FaruMesh And it is not contagious either.
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Faru Mesh
@FaruMesh (3508)
• India
25 Jul 21
@marguicha ohh I see
Faru Mesh
@FaruMesh (3508)
• India
21 Jul 21
Not sure it can be cured, the girl said she took medicine for around 15 years and at last she stopped taking med.
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prashu
@prashu228 (37525)
• India
21 Jul 21
But vitiligo is not a disease ...many people didn't know it..its just a skin disorder.. she did the right thing
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Faru Mesh
@FaruMesh (3508)
• India
21 Jul 21
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Jerr
@CuriousGab (3251)
• India
21 Jul 21
We need to accept ourselves first...even if no one loves us we need to love ourself. That gives us confidence to fight and work for our sucess journey
Faru Mesh
@FaruMesh (3508)
• India
21 Jul 21
Yes always, we have to be us and self motivated in any conditions
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Jerr
@CuriousGab (3251)
• India
21 Jul 21
@FaruMesh Because others won't respect you unless you respect yourself. She accepted herself..instead of crying on her ill fate. And see the result..
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Faru Mesh
@FaruMesh (3508)
• India
21 Jul 21
@CuriousGab Yes self respect is one character we need to develop, it may comes handy in difficult conditions.
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