After parents expired, do you think brothers and sisters will share the same bonding like before.
By Zabi khan
@zabikhan09 (141)
Bangalore, India
August 16, 2021 2:16pm CST
Its a tricky discussion, my parents have expired. my sister is almost same like before but my bro have changed a lot. Is anyone facing the same. Sometimes i feel like he is judging me always that too been younger. Our egos clash always. Every one has their good and bad times, being a hotelier and event planner last year due to pandemic I have faced lot of business loss. Trying to get back normal but it may take some time as this year also running bad. By gods grace at-least this not in same position.
Is anyone facing the same. Just asking as i can see everyone are going through rough phase.
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5 responses
@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
16 Aug 21
@zabikhan09 very true my friend.... Just forget the negative vibes and bring in the positivity and we have to move on. Nothing is permanent. By the time they understand it, it will be too late.
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@zabikhan09 (141)
• Bangalore, India
16 Aug 21
Really dont know what's wrong with them...Life is unexpected but the pain you get from loved ones is not easy to bare....
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@asianlady (2697)
• Ireland
16 Aug 21
It's normal to have a fall-out with our siblings. Don't focus too much on the negative side. You have good life if you look at bright side of life.
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@zabikhan09 (141)
• Bangalore, India
16 Aug 21
Yup right now am just focusing on to make a come back.....
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@asianlady (2697)
• Ireland
16 Aug 21
@zabikhan09 That's the right thing to do. Give your energy to make a big comeback.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
18 Aug 21
In my husband's case the opposite happened. My father in law passed away several years ago, and my mother in law passed away in 2020. Since that time my husband and his siblings have become closer. They call eachother more often and they also meet more often than before.
@zabikhan09 (141)
• Bangalore, India
20 Aug 21
Good to know that.....We need to be close to each other....
@kaylachan (57877)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Aug 21
Depends on the family and how they handle grief and loss. When my parents passed, my sisters turned on me and tried to control me. Wanted to keep me ignerant to the world so that they could collect my social security. It didn't last, obviously. I moved out, got married and haven't spoken to my family in years.
My husband lost both his parents, his mom about three months ago, and his relationship with his older sister seems the same.
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@zabikhan09 (141)
• Bangalore, India
17 Aug 21
Good to hear that, happy to see you managed to move out.
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@kasmakarim (1933)
• Indonesia
16 Aug 21
I had a mix feeling about it. After my grandpa and grandma gone, everything feels different about our family, but I'm not sure we lost our bonding
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@zabikhan09 (141)
• Bangalore, India
17 Aug 21
Yeah life is very much unexpected.
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