How do you overcome a failure?

@dya80dya (33596)
September 16, 2021 7:41am CST
I took a break here because I found a job part-time. I was so convinced that I finally found something. Today I tried the exam. The first part was in my native language. I never thought that I can fail it. There were very long texts and I had to answer in 30 minutes. The time expired and I failed. I had so many hopes and I prepared everything to pass this exam. The rest of the exam will be even harder. It will last for 8 or 10 hours. How do you overcome a failure? I finally had the chance to earn more than cents. And it's gone. This will make me depressed. Did you have recent failures?
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Manuela Lopes
@nela13 (55706)
• Portugal
16 Sep 21
Don't worry, you will surely find another job. It is difficult to deal with failures but we also learn a lot.
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Manuela Lopes
@nela13 (55706)
• Portugal
18 Sep 21
@dya80dya it's difficult everywhere but it's not impossible fingers crossed for you
Diana
@dya80dya (33596)
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16 Sep 21
I hope I can find other job. I will keep looking even if it's not easy at all.
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Laura
@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
17 Sep 21
@dya80dya yes that's the spirit!
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OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (86768)
• United States
16 Sep 21
I carry on and keep trying is what I do. But I realize it is not as easy as this sounds. I am sorry the time expired. Yet, is this over or do you have to try some more for this same job?
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OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (86768)
• United States
16 Sep 21
@dya80dya Wow that is long 10 hours of testing as well as what you had completed. So sorry to hear this Diana.Maybe this is not fair.
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Diana
@dya80dya (33596)
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16 Sep 21
@RebeccasFarm Yes, it isn't fair. They don't offer a second chance. They ignored my email.
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Diana
@dya80dya (33596)
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16 Sep 21
This was only the first part. The rest of the exam will last 10 hours. But they don't allow me to try it because I failed the first part. It was too difficult.
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simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
16 Sep 21
I used to experienced that when I was applying for a job but I just never stop trying and searching until I got the right one I will work for a long time. I always pray and do the best that I can do to find the right job for me
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Diana
@dya80dya (33596)
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16 Sep 21
I prayed a lot. I tried for years and I finally had this chance.
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simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
16 Sep 21
@dya80dya Don`t worry. You will find the right one. It is just really hard nowadays
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Diana
@dya80dya (33596)
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16 Sep 21
@m_audrey6788 I lost all hopes. I had so huge hopes for this job.
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Shizuka
@choijungeun (2533)
• Hangzhou, China
16 Sep 21
I have the failures all my life,because i live in a Nazi country.I have no freedom or human rights to do what i want to do.Communist party controls everything,if you want to live in Cathay,you have to be slave,dog,even zombie of CCP,or you will be the political pariah. How do i overcome a failure?I really don't know.I feel so desperate to live in a Nazi Country.Because of my dissidences,my twitter account was forced to delete under the Gestapo's threat,my poems can't publish and there's no place i can speak the truth in Cathay.If i dare to speak the truth in Cathay,i will be Second Doctor Li Wen-liang who was arrested by Gestapo immediately after he told the truth about coronavirus. How can i say?I just put all the hope and faith to God,God gives me the power to overcome the failure and believe in the good things.If i lose God,i can't imagine how shall i pursue my dream and never give up under the tyranny of the Red Nazi.God is everything to me,he lets me keep believing that there's always miracle in my life if i never give up my dream.
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simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
16 Sep 21
Shizuka
@choijungeun (2533)
• Hangzhou, China
17 Sep 21
@dya80dya Thank you very,i wish you have a beautiful day
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Diana
@dya80dya (33596)
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16 Sep 21
You are a strong person because you still have faith in God. My country used to be a communist country before I was born. I know some things about it because my parents told me. It's sad to live without freedom. I understand how you feel.
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meowhisper
@meowch (2220)
• United States
16 Sep 21
A new perspective. Think of failure as a lesson to get better in life. Nothing is permanent, to be successful one must learn to overcome negativity, have back up plans and just rethink your goals.
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meowhisper
@meowch (2220)
• United States
17 Sep 21
@dya80dya anytime.
Diana
@dya80dya (33596)
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16 Sep 21
This is good advice. Thank you.
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Laura
@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
16 Sep 21
Yes I have had so many failures in the recent time and am trying to be positive and hopeful as much as I can I wish you the best in your remaining exams
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Diana
@dya80dya (33596)
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16 Sep 21
Thank you. At least I am not the only one who experiences failures.
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Laura
@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
17 Sep 21
@dya80dya failure is for everyone
DianneN
@DianneN (247004)
• United States
17 Sep 21
Aww, not to worry. The right job is out there for you.
Ignasius Budyanto
@zeongi (158)
• Ujung Pandang, Indonesia
17 Sep 21
I know what it's like to fail. It's like I want to die and end everything. But I always remind myself that life is not only winning but also losing. If there is no defeat, we will not know the name of fighting. there is a challenge. We become strong because there is a sense of defeat. In this life we ??only pay attention to the results, but don't pay attention to the process. If we pay attention to the process we will never worry about anything. Leave all the results to God. We can only plan and implement it.