Is total honesty needed in a relationship?

December 12, 2021 1:44am CST
Are you one of those people who think a relationship requires total honesty? Or a you in the category that believes a little white lie is neccessary for a relationship to thrive ? If you think total honesty is required then what your reason for that ? If you think it's better to lie at some point then why do you think so ??
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@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
12 Dec 21
Not telling everything is not the same as lying.
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12 Dec 21
12 Dec 21
What if it's for purposes of peace? I mean not every partner is understanding,some will blow things out of proportion
@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
12 Dec 21
A little of white lie is required for a smooth going relationship which one should tell later about
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• Mojave, California
12 Dec 21
For men White lies are necessary. So many of my friends wife's are girlfriends go, do not think I am blind to what goes on but for us to survive I will allow it. Nothing so bad just things that annoy their partner I guess but I laugh every time. I am like dude you gonna get me in trouble and they like nah we will be fine and why do I care I am not dating our married to the other person.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
12 Dec 21
12 Dec 21
@crossbones27 Wait why just men and not each party?
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@GooglePlus (3807)
12 Dec 21
Even "total honesty" words will have different meaning in different people's dictionary. If you ask me, I am not the right person to talk to since I am still single, but yeah, Honesty is best policy. This is my thought process, if you are honest with yourself, and so with your better half then you can have a better sleep at night. Again this is my thought process. Lying can be a temporary relief but can harm in long run. Because it becomes a tendency and a small lie becomes a big lie within span of say 5 years. I know myself, I feel uneasy when I lie, So I don't want to be in that situation.
12 Dec 21
I think I agree with this
@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
12 Dec 21
I feel total honesty is very important in any relationship. When you lie, the trust is broken and I hard to get it mended
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@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
13 Dec 21
12 Dec 21
Very true
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@Mayabee21 (326)
14 Dec 21
It’s better to tell the truth than getting yourself in trouble
@elmer0421 (380)
16 Dec 21
According to an article of Barton Goldsmith Ph. D., honesty is about being able to tell the truth in a way that your partner will hear and benefit from it. Moreover, honesty requires to be tender.
@aninditasen (15804)
• Raurkela, India
12 Dec 21
Total honesty in a relationship keeps it healthy though there may be some fights.
13 Dec 21
If one doesn't have any bad intent, there is no need to question about honesty.
@Babino (5761)
• Morocco
12 Dec 21
I think some lies can do better than the truths. Sometimes I just wish I didn't know so..