Can Todays' Parents Raise Great Kids?

@Gabugs (1895)
United States
December 28, 2021 3:09pm CST
Great kids are indeed a source of pride and joy to their parents. To most parents, raising great kids specifically entails ensuring that their kids turn out to be successful and happy, physically strong and healthy, mentally agile and intelligent, and morally responsible, productive adults. This indeed is the essence of good parenting. Parenting today is certainly not easy; there are no perfect rules or perfect parents. There will be ups and downs, tears and laughter, joys and sorrows. However, parents, who consistently convey a sense of genuine caring to their children, would have a greater chance of raising great kids. By following a couple of easy steps and staying committed, parents can ultimately realize their goal of raising great kids. It is therefore vital that you begin early. Timing is crucial! It would be best to begin planning the process as early as possible in your child's life. Whatever your parenting style, it would be in your child's interest, to get on the same page with the co-parent---either in a two-parent home or single-parent home, if you are sharing responsibility with your ex-spouse. Having a common shared goal would make the task so much easier. Another important contributing factor to raising great kids is maintaining your family’s good health. Good health results in a healthy state of mind, body, and outlook. Teach your child to eat balanced meals and exercise regularly. This habit can contribute greatly to keeping your kid in top working condition. Good health -physical, mental, and emotional, triggers good behavior and that is the prime quality that every great kid should have. Keep in mind, that it is you as parents who can yield the greatest influence on your kids. This impact can last a lifetime.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
28 Dec 21
Why " Todays' Parents"? It has always been like this. Are you saying that in former times parents were not interested in raising their children well?
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@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
28 Dec 21
That's what I thought she was saying. I felt a bit miffed about this. But hey, this woman is the fountain of all knowledge in all things family related
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@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
28 Dec 21
@JimBo452020 I'm sorry if you felt a bit "miffed" about this. However, in my long-standing as a teacher of repute at St. Xavier's and St. Mary's Schools, I have come across hundreds of children along with their families, so I do know exactly what I'm talking about. And thank you, Sir, for your lovely compliment.
@Kouponkaren (5486)
• United States
28 Dec 21
Today's parents CAN raise great kids but the question is do they want to put in the effort to do so? It's hard raising children and I notice a lot of parents today, especially the younger ones, don't want to be bothered disciplining their kids.
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@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
28 Dec 21
@kouponkaren You are absolutely RIGHT in your comment. And thank you for making it so explicit to our esteemed members @MALUSE AND @JimBo Wish that some of today's parents would truly want to put in their effort and time to discipline and raise their kids really well. Thanks, Karen for your understanding.
• United States
28 Dec 21
@Gabugs You are most welcome. Have a good night!
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@LadyDuck (458701)
• Switzerland
29 Dec 21
Parenting was not easy even when I was young and our parents had to raise my brother and I. I think that growing great kids is still possible, I see my neighbors and their son and daughter, very good teenagers.
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@LadyDuck (458701)
• Switzerland
30 Dec 21
@Gabugs One thing I know for sure, my parents had NO time at all to spend with us. My father worked all day long 6 days a week, he went out at 7 in the morning and came back at 7 in the evening. My grandparents lived with us, they were sick, Mom was busy all the time to take care of them. Well, despite that we grew up being responsible, knowing to respect the other, being polite and studying our lessons without the help of anyone.
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@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
1 Jan 22
@LadyDuck Well dear, your parents may not have had the time to spend with you. But you observed their hard work and life and you learned to appreciate and emulate them. And that is an important lesson you imbibed from them. Kudos to you!
@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
30 Dec 21
@LadyDuck Absolutely true that in those days too parenting was not easy. My parents led a hard life. But life was simple then. Parents made sure to spend quality time with their kids. They made sure to take time to teach values to their kids. They taught them to be responsible and productive adults. I am sure you will agree to this.
@RasmaSandra (73603)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
28 Dec 21
These days it is hard to raise children because there are so many negative influences, I was lucky to have my childhood in the 1960s with not much technical influence and parents who really loved me,
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@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
29 Dec 21
@RasmaSandra Indeed yes, we feel fortunate to be raised by caring parents- - - free from the surge of technological advancement.
@JudyEv (326102)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Dec 21
Parenting is really the most important job there is but there is very little training for it. You have provided some very good advice here. Good to see you back too.
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@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
29 Dec 21
@JudyEv It's indeed good to know that you believe that parenting is the most important job. Wish many parents today would agree. Although this job may not pay you money, in the long term, it can pay you huge dividends if done right. I am sure you will agree Judy.
@youfiq (2572)
• United States
28 Dec 21
of course you can, but this requires hard work from both parents, the hard work of father and mother, can't just rely on one sided
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@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
29 Dec 21
@youfiq You are so right. Good Parenting does require joint effort and time from both the parents. It certainly takes "two to tango."
@jstory07 (134525)
• Roseburg, Oregon
29 Dec 21
All ages of parents can raise good children if they give them love and understanding.
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@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
4 Jan 22
jstory07 Indeed yes. So true! Indeed age does not matter. It's the quality of attention that children get from their parents. That definitely counts.
@youfiq (2572)
• United States
28 Dec 21
of course you can, but this requires hard work from both parents, the hard work of father and mother, can't just rely on one sided