How MyLot and an acting out kid made me an extra seven dollars and fifty cents or so today.

@TheHorse (206086)
Walnut Creek, California
April 7, 2022 5:26pm CST
I worked from 8:30 AM to 12:30 PM at my friend's preschool today. I am a child psychologist who is good with kids who act out. As I have written about before, I am currently working with a kid who curses out his teacher in Spanish when she tries to get him to take a nap. Today, I was asked to stay late to get him to sleep. I patted his back to the rhythm of the sleepy music she was playing on the little boom box. I told him that was what I was going to do. He fell asleep to a piece that was in 3/4 time within a few minutes. I let him slide through that first bit of REM sleep into deep sleep and then went home. While patting his back, I thought up a hypothesis about why a slow beat on ones back to a 3/4 time tune would help a kid sleep. It has to do with the rhythm of a mother's heartbeat when one is in the womb. Have you read "This is Your Brain on Music" by Daniel Levitin? He is a neurologist who studies the psychology of music as well. I have met him and conversed with him a couple of times. I may run my "theory" by him and see what he thinks. I will summarize thus: If you have a kid who struggles to get to sleep, try gently patting their back in rhythm to a musical piece in 3/4 time. Bach's famous Minuet in G is a simple example. Maybe we can all publish a paper together. I'll write more about my hypothesis once I do a bit more research on the sound/feel of a mother's heartbeat and the timing of a slow 3/4 time piece of music.
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@franxav (13605)
• India
7 Apr 22
I always believed that music lulls a baby to sleep but it also helps adults.
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
7 Apr 22
I think it does too. Right now I'm wondering whether music that mirror's a mother's heartbeat is especially soothing.
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@DWDavis (25812)
• Pikeville, North Carolina
7 Apr 22
I'm thinking that if you listen to most lullabies, you will find they use 3/4 time.
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@DWDavis (25812)
• Pikeville, North Carolina
9 Apr 22
@TheHorse I read a short piece on lullabies that said most were set to 6/8 because it emulated the rhythm of a rocking chair or cradle. To my math mind, 6/8 and 3/4 are equivalent. I know in music, though, there is a subtle difference. Your thoughts?
@DWDavis (25812)
• Pikeville, North Carolina
9 Apr 22
@TheHorse I tried listening to a few but kept drifting off.
@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
I'll have to "test that hypothesis"! This one is in 4/4. But "Lullabie and Goodnight" is in 3/4. Lets come up with others.
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@kixsh101 (2103)
• Philippines
7 Apr 22
Wow! You have a good hypothesis. I agree with you on that, there is a high chance of it. I will try it with a my niece she is a toddler.
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
Let us know what you discover. I have not written Levitin yet.
@kaylachan (57910)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
7 Apr 22
That does sound interesting. Similar to the theory about why we like the sound of rain at night.
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
7 Apr 22
How does that one go? I LOVE the sound of rain at night. Do we hear fluids rushing when we're in the womb?
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@RasmaSandra (73570)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
7 Apr 22
I have heard many times that babies and toddlers do better when hearing music as they go to sleep, In fact, many of those above the crib dangly things forgot what they are called have a mechanism to turn on and play some kind of lullaby
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
I wonder if babies are offended by low fidelity.
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@JudyEv (326046)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Apr 22
I read somewhere that 4/4 music is best to study by but I have no idea where I read that.
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
I always wondered whether the "Mozart Effect" was peculiar to Mozart. But I never researched the methodology.
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
@JudyEv Rght now I'm interested in what music most resembles a mother's heartbeat. Kitty is in on the research. Why does she always present her butt to me when she wants love?
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@JudyEv (326046)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Apr 22
@TheHorse I think it was Mozart's music that was recommended. It seems you've heard of something similar too.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
8 Apr 22
Sounds like a good hypothesis. Will check this one out. Where do I find someone who will pat my back until I get to sleep though? LOL!
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
Craigslist might work!
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
8 Apr 22
@TheHorse will check it out.
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
@allen0187 You may get so many responses you get lost.
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@divalounger (5849)
• United States
9 Apr 22
why 3/4 time?
@LadyDuck (458583)
• Switzerland
8 Apr 22
I am thinking to Italian lullabies, may be they use 3/4 time, but I am not sure.
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@LadyDuck (458583)
• Switzerland
9 Apr 22
@TheHorse - I should listen to some of them, I do not even remember. There are many lullabies from Classical musics that I like, Bach is not my favorite, but Chopin, Mozart are.
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Apr 22
@LadyDuck I really like Chopin's nocturnes. Heh. The first one that comes to mind is in 3/4 time.
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
I bet some are and some aren't.
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@wolfgirl569 (95440)
• Marion, Ohio
8 Apr 22
Glad he went to sleep.
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@wolfgirl569 (95440)
• Marion, Ohio
8 Apr 22
@TheHorse You could have faked it for a little bit more
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
@wolfgirl569 Dang! Why didn't I think of that?
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
Heh. Me too. But had it taken longer I would be richer. Hmm.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
8 Apr 22
I’d never thought about it but moms always pats the babies backs when the are fretful or sleepy. And it works.
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
I may go listen to a heartbeat now.
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
@RubyHawk Is it in 3/4 or 4/4 time? I'd never really thought about it.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
8 Apr 22
@TheHorse That’s always interesting.
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@nela13 (55732)
• Portugal
8 Apr 22
Depending on the music it can help a baby or a kid to relax and fall asleep easily.
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Apr 22
I should be at a background level, though.
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@LindaOHio (156584)
• United States
8 Apr 22
That makes very good sense. Bravo!
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
We'll see if I "get my mojo working" and try to email Levitin today.
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@oahuwriter (26780)
• United States
8 Apr 22
It makes sense that the rhythm of the patting, to a Mother's heart beat is so comforting to woo child to sleep. As a child in the safe womb, it's the sound baby heard for about 9 months.
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
Yep. That's what I'm thinking.
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@TheHorse (206086)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Apr 22
@oahuwriter I hope these lines of thought can lead somewhere. If I could create the perfect baby song, end all hatred and war, and be remembered as a kind soul...or...make millions of dollars from my genius and be just like...other rich people...which would I choose?
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@oahuwriter (26780)
• United States
9 Apr 22
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