Dear Diary...

@sica98 (2441)
Malaysia
August 20, 2022 3:41am CST
I have this older friend who writes in a diary till today.She had so many diaries in her study room shelves.I couldn't help but stare at them for a moment.I never seem to understand why would someone keep a diary in the first place but I also wanted to know why.So I decided to asked her anyway. She said that it started only a few years ago after a divorce she'd been through.As she was telling me the whole story of why she started writing in the diary,halfway through I can see she was starting to tear up,I decided then to change the subject.Later on she gave me a peek inside her personal diary showing me her most recent entry .Her diaries were frequently filled with doodles and sketches .She keeps a daily record entries of events and experiences she's been through. She also told me at one point during our conversation that it was a secure and safe place to express your ideas,memories, personal experiences in life and emotions.The last thing she said to me was that it makes you feel better overall by giving you an outlet for thoughts and feelings. Do you keep a diary mylotters? Do you think that having a diary helps a person well being?
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@Adie04 (17360)
20 Aug 22
When I was still a kid to adolescence, I kept a diary. But the more old I go, I kept everything in my head. Maybe that's why people call me sharp memory because I write everything in my head.
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@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
@Adie04, wowwww, me, never write a diary. I don't like to look back the past.
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@Adie04 (17360)
21 Aug 22
@cacay1 One similar reason like yours too. And with writing things in my mind, maybe that's how my mind is getting shaper. @sica98 Your mom is absolutely right.
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@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 22
@cacay1 My mom says the same thing.She'd rather not look back to the past and be more positive on the future.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
20 Aug 22
No, I don't keep a diary. Some day I may wish I had but, for now, it seems like too much work for little or no gain.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
20 Aug 22
@sica98 But I'd have to read through every discussion since I scatter my thoughts, feelings and what I'm doing every day all over myLot. I rarely write discussions that would be of much use in remembering daily details of my life.
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@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
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@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 22
Your diary is being here everyday with some gain here $$$.
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@jobelbojel (34730)
• Philippines
20 Aug 22
I think it is an escape for a certain people. I don't have a diary but I keep a devotional journal for my Bible reading.
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@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
@jobelbojel, good boy.
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@LadyDuck (460508)
• Switzerland
20 Aug 22
I keep a daily agenda where I write what I did during the day, it's more for future reference than other reasons.
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@LadyDuck (460508)
• Switzerland
20 Aug 22
@cacay1 The stamps are not a reminder of what I did one year or ten years ago.
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@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
@LadyDuck, I don't write a diary. I just collected stamps.
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@Dreamerby (3048)
• Calcutta, India
20 Aug 22
Yes I have a diary. I feel good good after pouring in my emotions while writing.
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@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 22
She did say that writing is an effective measure for preventing or reducing stress and anxiety.That's probably a good thing I guess.
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@Dreamerby (3048)
• Calcutta, India
20 Aug 22
@sica98 Definitely it is.
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@Beestring (13495)
• Hong Kong
20 Aug 22
I used to write a diary when I was a teenager, until I'm in the twenties. Somehow, I didn't feel like doing it anymore.
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@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
@Beestring it's a waste of time for me.
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@jeanbug23 (992)
• Philippines
21 Aug 22
When I was a teenager I was so fond of Diaries. I include the time, date, and details of the events. Up to this day, I write my journal in my diary.
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@sjvg1976 (41132)
• Delhi, India
21 Aug 22
That's good. It's always a pleasure when we read it after a long time. I used to do it but don't get time to write it anymore.
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@sol_cee (38222)
• Philippines
20 Aug 22
I did when I was a lot younger. I read about people buying and collecting other people’s diaries
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@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 22
If I ever wrote one,I don't think I will be selling them at anytime.I don't like the idea of sharing my private thoughts for the rest of the world to see.It sound creepy knowing someone reading everything about you.
@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Aug 22
She could publish her diary. I don't write a diary.
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@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 22
She probably could publish but I don't think she wants to.
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@gtdoss (1013)
• United States
20 Aug 22
I would love to have the discipline to journal or keep a diary! I've started them in the past, but I never developed the habit of writing in them every day. I think it would be cool to be able to look at an entry from years ago and see what I might have been thinking back then!
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@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 22
It would be nice to look back on some of the things you done but I rather look back at the photos and remember the past.
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• India
20 Aug 22
Naa that's a lot of work but I see many prefer to writes diary daily
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• India
21 Aug 22
@sica98 those who wants to write will write no matter what
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@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 22
It does seem like it takes a lot of work just to do all that on a daily basis.
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• Philippines
20 Aug 22
I once have a diary. but nope I stopped it anymore as my brother is using that to me to blackmail me and make me obey what he want.
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@sjvg1976 (41132)
• Delhi, India
21 Aug 22
@sica98 that's what I used to worry about when wanted to maintain a diary. I always had a fear that someone will read it and know everything about me and will try to blackmail me.
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@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 22
Hahaha that's real funny,I guess I'm lucky that I'm an only child then.
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@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 22
@sjvg1976 Sam told me his own little brother used to do that.Can you believe that.Your own sibling.
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20 Aug 22
I do a video diary yes. Every December I go thru it and reflect. I tried writing a dairy when I was younger but it didn’t work for me. Talking actually does work for me and saves me tons in therapy money lol.
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@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 22
I never tried it nor a video diary.It's just not for me as well.
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@PRUELPO (56)
• Cavite City, Philippines
20 Aug 22
I think it is also good if we can write and keep our own diaries...
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@ptrikha_2 (45635)
• India
21 Aug 22
My father also keeps Diary entries. He is very regular and particular with the entries. I started the practice but did not sustain it. It is a good habit and can help one keep stress at bay but with the kind of random things cropping up and a lot of them, it becomes difficult to manage such activities.
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@sjvg1976 (41132)
• Delhi, India
20 Aug 22
No, I don't keep a diary as I don't want someone to go through my personal life.
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@RebeccasFarm (86976)
• United States
20 Aug 22
I do not but it must be therapeutic for your friend to do so.
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@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 22
Yes I think it has help her in a lot of ways.In some that we don't understand.
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@RasmaSandra (74146)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Aug 22
I kept dairies all through my growing up years and into adulthood and even later, Then one day I looked through all my diaries and thought, When will I even read them again and why would this interest me? So I wrote down some of the important life events I wanted to remember and pulled out some pages and just through the whole lot away, Now I just have notebooks about the things I do online, what I post and what I plan on doing each day,
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@sallypup (58351)
• Centralia, Washington
21 Aug 22
I do keep a journal and have all my life. It's just part of me. I sometimes look back and am amazed at how life used to be for me when I lived in various places in my younger years.
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@LindaOHio (158796)
• United States
20 Aug 22
I used to keep a diary. I wish I had continued. It's interesting to go back and read about what I did and thought when I was a teenager. I think it helps to be able to write about your feelings.
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@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 22
It could bring back some joyful memories I suppose..It's never too late to go back if you want to.There would be no expiration date.
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