Yes---No---Maybe---And Yes, But Only With You (MyLot Exclusive #1272)

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Many of you, my 226.4 Billion Loyal Dedicated Daily Readers, have made a "Yes---No---Maybe" list and compared the results with those of your partner(s) but have you ever considered the "Yes---No---Maybe" list as just a good starting point rather than the ultimate endpoint of understanding your physical relationship with each other? That it leaves room for improvement? Linked below, for your convenience, is an excellent article called "13 Sex Questions You Probably Haven't Asked Your Partner --- But Should" and it got me thinking that the "Yes---No---Maybe" list needs another category. "Yes, But Only With You." ((I have much more to say about those questions but those observations can only be found on my MyLot AfterDark Channel)) It would be something(s) that would be a "No" or a low "Maybe" with anyone else but are a hard "Yes" with your partner because she, he or they make it truly enjoyable rather than something you agree to just to make them happy or had always refused to do because it's a turnoff with anyone else. I, of course, don't have any current or even recent personal examples to share with you because I have been single for a very long time. And even if that weren't the case, I couldn't talk much about them here. But, I do have a personal example that has nothing to do with relationships. Music. Musicals, in particular. I detest them ((Many individual songs from detestable Musicals are fine and I often feature them as the Cosmic Universal Anthem Song Of The Month Club Song Of The Day but I will not watch the movie or play they come from)). Except when they are done by Elvis, The Beatles or feature Annette in a bikini (( And a few other exceptions but for the most part, Musicals are a very hard NO for me)). All the Elvis, Beatles and Beach Party (And their many variants) movies are labeled as Musicals. That means that I should find them unwatchable and refuse to see them. But the opposite is true. I love them and find them very enjoyable. Why is this? How should I know? I'm just a Simple Country Gynecologist, not a fancy overpriced big city Psychologist. I just know that I like them, even though I shouldn't. And I have one more example that's also musical in nature but has nothing to do with musicals. A single song called "Without You." It's been covered by many artists, most notably Harry Nilsson, and I don't like any of them. With one exception. Heart's version. I love it. For no apparent logical reason because it's the same song I don't like when done by anyone else. It's a huge mystery. And that's it for this one except to sum everything up with, "How and why do certain people or circumstances turn Hard No's into Hard Yes'es? All of them. The things we can talk about here and the things we can only talk about on my MyLot AfterDark Channel." With that in mind, let's go to the Capital Center in Landover, Maryland in 1977, and see what the Cosmic Universal Anthem Song Of The Month Club Song For Today is. If you prefer the Harry Nilsson version, just tell the Conductor and she'll give you a free transfer to 1972. ************** RELATIONSHIPS SEX 13 Sex Questions You Probably Haven't Asked Your Partner --- But Should These conversation starters will help you get to know each other on a deeper level, sex experts say. By Kelsey Borresen Mar 31, 2023, 05:50 PM EDT https://www.huffpost.com/entry/interesting-sex-questions-ask-partner_l_64248b88e4b0b2ba231fa1ac ----------------------------------- HEART WithoutYou Live1977