My two Facebook friends in Deca Homes started fighting

Pasay, Philippines
April 12, 2023 7:47pm CST
I have two neighbors in our condominium. Their names are Wendy and Lucille. Windy and Lucille had been best friends for as long as they could remember. They had shared everything with each other since childhood and had never fought over anything. However, their friendship was about to be tested when Windy made a hurtful post on Facebook about Lucille's daughter. Windy had always been a bit arrogant and had a habit of making insensitive comments. She had been posting photos and status updates about her daughter's achievements and boasting about how she was the best mother in the world. However, when Lucille's daughter had not done well in a competition, Windy made a nasty post on Facebook, shaming Lucille's daughter and indirectly insulting Lucille's parenting skills. Lucille was hurt and angry when she saw the post. She called Windy right away and confronted her about the post. Windy tried to justify her actions, but Lucille was not having any of it. She told Windy that she was arrogant and self-centered and that she had hurt not only her daughter but also her as a mother. Wendy still did not realize her mistake and apologized, while Lucille is not ready to forgive her just yet. She told Wendy that she needed to make it right and prove that she was genuinely sorry but Windy ignores. Was Lucille right for confronting Wendy?
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@kaylachan (57897)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Apr 23
I'd say so. While it might be normal behavior to act rude, you can take it too far.
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• Pasay, Philippines
1 May
I believe that there are certain limitations when to comes to saying things to someone. If we know these limitations, then we can avoid any possible fights in the future.
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@kaylachan (57897)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 May
@resy21curapika You'd be right, but when feelings become involved... then it can be hard to edit yourself.
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• Pasay, Philippines
1 May
@kaylachan I strongly agree with your insights. Thank you so much
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
13 Apr 23
I would say Lucille was right as you cannot expect such behavior from a friend.
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• Pasay, Philippines
1 May
I agree. I would also feel the same way, too.
@Shavkat (137221)
• Philippines
13 Apr 23
I think they need to take their time to stay away from each other.
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• Pasay, Philippines
17 May
I was thinking that these two will block each others in Facebook but I am surprised that they did not. And they are still fighting as we speak. Oh boy.
@Adie04 (17360)
13 Apr 23
This is why I avoid social media. When you are mad with someone, you tend to post something about them in social media, making it worse.
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• Pasay, Philippines
1 May
You have a point here. Thanks for sharing this
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