What??
By Laura
@Laurakemunto (12862)
Kenya
May 30, 2023 1:50pm CST
Some people are just heartless.
I mean when someone wrongs me I say, when am happy I say, when someone is nice to me I say. When am disinterested I also say!
But some people are just silent you never know what's going on in their heads they stop talking to you and when you ask they say they are fine until you push further then they say you are dramatic.
Am talking about a friend of mine I got totally bored I wish I never bumped into him again.
It bores me alot . Why not being human for even a sec?
I know we are all different but come on. It's hard but I don't take it personally . What's your thoughts on this?
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11 responses
@AmbiePam (86008)
• United States
30 May
I hate to say this, but that sounds just like a man. If they don't want to talk, and we persist, even nicely, they are more likely to be blunt in rejecting our attention. It's unfortunate, but they're not really thinking about our feelings if they are uninterested. You have every right to feel annoyed though.
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@AmbiePam (86008)
• United States
30 May
@Laurakemunto If he continues to ignore you, take heart in knowing it is most like not you, but something in his life that he is overly preoccupied with. I've had a male friend treat me like a yo yo before, and eventually I had enough with the theatrics.
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@AmbiePam (86008)
• United States
30 May
@Laurakemunto Bless your heart. With your male friend though, it might not be depression. However, if you're worried about that, just keep the lines of communication open by doing some of what you were. Smile if you see him, keep following him on Facebook, but try not to be hurt if he doesn't reply. Just by showing you're there if he needs you should be enough.
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
30 May
He's a good friend known him for many years I just don't understand but I will force myself to keep my cool and wait maybe he's undergoing see tough situation . He'll like my posts, on social media comment but when I reply boom He's silent. Then being a man must be tough I can't handle that God knew 
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
30 May
People are just the way they are... As you say, we're all different. You should also remember that men don't think the same way women think. Men in a lot of the world are trained from birth that showing our emotions is wrong... We're supposed to be strong and silent... You can't tell men that and then expect them to be open and fun all the time.
If you don't enjoy being around him, just leave him alone.
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
30 May
But he's a friend known him since 1999 when I joined primary school and studies for 8 years together he used to be open but all oof a sudden boom he's shut!!
I wonder maybe I did something wrong or unexpected I prefer to be told maybe he's silent because I did something unknowingly but I'm gonna leave him alone . Maybe am overthinking. But making me guess is something I really hate
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
30 May
@Laurakemunto I don't know the man but I'd still say just leave him alone. If he used to be open, then he'll open up again when he's ready.
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
30 May
@DaddyEvil yea I guess I should give him his peace
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@RebeccasFarm (86976)
• United States
30 May
I am sorry this friend is behaving badly. That seems very rude to not tell you why.
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@RebeccasFarm (86976)
• United States
30 May
@Laurakemunto Yes it is very uncalled for, not necessary ..so sorry
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
30 May
Yea I feel so bad and it's not good to keep someone guessing what they did to you to deserve such treatment
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@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
31 May
The same thing happened to me a few months back. I have a friend who was very close to me. He called me sis and treated me like one until he got a girlfriend and started lying to me. He told me he was sick and he stopped talking to me.
He started ignoring me and would speak in a tone where he was so rude. So I let him go. That's what he wanted so I gave him what he was looking for.
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@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
1 Jun
@Laurakemunto No dear actually He used me to get to that girl who was my best friend. Once I brought both of them together they both started ignoring me. The girl I called best friend betrayed me...She lied about me to him. But one day Karma will hit they'd know the truth.
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
3 Jun
@BabeSays best friends always betray us I don't know why and our boyfriends also some of them act stupidly and I hate that for sure .
Yea one day karma gonna get them stay strong you'll get a good guy who is not easily swayed thank God he has shown you how weak of a creature you are.
And your best friend she'll never have peace that's a disgrace and betraying you it's so bad.
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
1 Jun
Yes maybe he had romantic feelings towards you and didn't have the courage to tell you.
Maybe his girlfriend does not approve of him having female friends
It's good you let him go especially being rude to you is so unfair I don't like it
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
31 May
@leighnyork woke up well and my day has started well what of you?
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@allknowing (130292)
• India
31 May
We have to learn to accept people around us as they are as trying to change them is not the way.
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
31 May
Yes but he changed not what I used to know him of . Anyways I'll leave him alone
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
30 May
Yes I agree but certain weird change can raise eyebrows but maybe I just let it go however bothering it's becoming
@manikarnika (3222)
• India
31 May
Human Behaviour is not Judgemental. That's why hard to feed emotions to Robots by coding
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@Scrapper88 (5957)
• United States
30 May
I know a few people that seems like they are real nice when we first met. Over time their true colors comes out and shows what they are really like.
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
30 May
Yes I agree since pretence doesn't long last . It's very bad I am authentic and I prefer people who call themselves my friend to be like real atleast and don't fake things
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