The moments of sorrow in your life that have etched permanently in your heart.

By Joy
Guwahati, India
June 3, 2023 8:02pm CST
When my father left us and departed from this world, I cried a lot, and I felt that this was the biggest sorrow. Gradually, I realized that everyone who comes must eventually leave. His passing occurred at the age of 62. Then I felt that such a phase of life would never come again. But once again, I had to face a similar Incidence when my elder brother passed away. This is an incident that has permanently etched itself in my heart because he left this world at a young age of only 43. He had a great zest for life, and he was afraid of death. This thought keeps haunting me repeatedly; whenever I do something, his memories deeply trouble me.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
4 Jun
I understand. My son passed away two years ago and my better half a little over a year ago. Life will never be the same without them. You have my;sympathy.
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@AmbiePam (85604)
• United States
4 Jun
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• Guwahati, India
4 Jun
That's true, but still, one has to keep living. Damn life.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
4 Jun
@PurnaSharma That’s true, we live each day as best we can.
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@jeanbug23 (992)
• Philippines
4 Jun
When my husband passed, my youngest daughter was only 9 years old. It was after that tragic moment, and weeks and months passed, the behavior I have been noticing came out worst. As a mom, I have to ignore all these signs of narcissism in her. At first, I didn't know it was narcissism, and it was just lately in her twenties that it became open. It was very difficult to deal with this, but I have to keep her life in order first before I leave her. If I won't get rid of the toxicity, my health is at stake, illnesses came in on me so with God's help, I helped her find work which is impossible for her in fact because of her attitude. Now, it's a great breather that I have had peace of mind after so many years of living in toxicity.
• Guwahati, India
4 Jun
I am sorry for your husband and appreciate you stood as a brave lady.
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@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
6 Jun
I lost my wife in February of 2022. Was it hard - oh yes. Even though we had only been married for 5 and a half years, she had been a roommate since 1999 and a friend since 1984.
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@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
7 Jun
@PurnaSharma yeah, I told her I'd be fine, but I wasn't... I'm getting better, in many ways because of my sister and her wife.
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• Guwahati, India
6 Jun
I offer my heartfelt condolences for the passing of your wife. The length of time you spent together as roommates and friends highlights the profound impact she had on your life, making her absence all the more difficult.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
10 Jun
I'm sorry for your loss. May they both rest in peace. Losing someone you love is always painful. Keeping yourself busy could help you .
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• Guwahati, India
10 Jun
Thanks for the consolation, i am trying so.
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@nela13 (55729)
• Portugal
6 Jun
Both leave this world early, I am sorry for your losses. Do you believe in god? If you do, it can be a comfort knowing that one day you will be together again. You have surely good memories of them, it may hurt now but in the future those memories will put a smile in your face.
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• Guwahati, India
6 Jun
I believe in God and with this belief, I could carry on my life.
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@nela13 (55729)
• Portugal
6 Jun
@PurnaSharma God surely has your father and your brother in a good place.
@Yadah04 (3363)
• Philippines
5 Jun
its always sad whenever family members pass away. that pain never leaves, but we just get to live by it. i am sorry for your loss. i hope you find comfort.
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• Guwahati, India
5 Jun
Thank you for your solace.
@jstory07 (134444)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Jun
I am so sorry for your loss. You do have the good memories of them.
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• Guwahati, India
4 Jun
Memories are good but it makes me cry.
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@LadyDuck (458549)
• Switzerland
4 Jun
I am so sorry for your father and for your brother, he was too young to go.
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