Do you have real friends and does friendship exist?

@dya80dya (33764)
June 7, 2023 10:07am CST
I was more blind than a blind. I thought a man was my friend. In my opinion, true friendship doesn't exist. That friend only wanted me to be his referral. He wanted to earn more and more money. He gained my trust. After a while he stopped caring about my feelings. He asked for my password. He wants my money. Now I don't trust people. I knew him for many years. I wonder how I could be so blind so much time. Do you have real friends? Does friendship exist?
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@Beestring (13405)
• Hong Kong
7 Jun
So sorry about that. I have three close friends. We've known each other for over 30 years.
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@dya80dya (33764)
16 Jun
This is amazing. 30 years is a very long time.
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@Beestring (13405)
• Hong Kong
16 Jun
@dya80dya Yes, we've known each other in high school.
• Durban, South Africa
7 Jun
A 30 year old friendship is quite rare, you're quite lucky to have that.
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• India
7 Jun
Oh sorry about it. Yeah I have friends
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@dya80dya (33764)
16 Jun
Are they real friends?
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• India
16 Jun
@dya80dya I hope so
@AmbiePam (85736)
• United States
7 Jun
Yes, I have a couple of really good friends, and I know they'd be there for me no matter what. I remember one time I went to pick up my medication, and it was $70, which I couldn't afford. My friend Naomi, without hesitating, paid for it herself, knowing I would never be able to pay her back. In turn, once Naomi totaled her car, and I started giving her rides wherever she needed to go. But neither of us has ever asked each other for anything, we kind of naturally see a need and try to help each other. And there is nothing wrong with asking for a favor, UNLESS it makes someone uncomfortable like your ex friend made you uncomfortable when he asked for your password. If you said no, and a person got upset about that, automatically it tells you, that is not your friend. With your good heart, it is natural that you tried to give him the benefit of the doubt. And believe me, we have all been betrayed by a friend at some point in our lives. But there is at least one person out there who will be a good friend to you. And one good friend is worth ten people who tell you what you want to hear.
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@dya80dya (33764)
16 Jun
Yes, a good friend is all I need. Only one.
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@kanuck1 (4401)
7 Jun
Friendship exists but is tricky. I have some friends. Real friends are as rare as diamonds. Diamonds are rare but they exist and so do real friends. We must keep in mind that there are no perfect friends and that even real friends can hurt us, so we need to always be cautious.
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@kanuck1 (4401)
17 Jun
@dya80dya Asking someone for their password would reveal criminal intend and it would never be done by a real friend.
@dya80dya (33764)
16 Jun
Yes, everyone can hurt us, but not everyone asks for our password.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
9 Jun
Sorry to know about it. One should be careful and should not get blind in friendship.
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@dya80dya (33764)
16 Jun
Yes, sometimes we are blind because we need friends. And we ignore everything.
@Kanji121 (38)
• Durban, South Africa
7 Jun
So sorry about that, I can't imagine terrible you must feel. I suppose good friends do exist, it just takes time and meeting the right people. Once I lost faith in friendship , I found a friend in my girlfriend, she's Is one I trust.
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@dya80dya (33764)
16 Jun
They are rare.
@RebeccasFarm (86841)
• United States
7 Jun
I don't only you Diana
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@dya80dya (33764)
16 Jun
Don't you have any friends?
@just4him (307544)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Jun
I'm sorry that happened to you. He wasn't a true friend. Yes, true friendships exist. I have a couple of very good friends.
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@dya80dya (33764)
16 Jun
You are lucky.
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