Dinner Tonight

United States
June 7, 2023 10:03pm CST
I went out to dinner tonight with my husband and a colleague he hasn't seen in quite some time. My husband asked me to come along and I said I thought it would be better if the 2 of them just met and had dinner so they could talk about work and catch up on things since they haven't seen each other in at least 5 years. But my husband really wanted me to come along and since he has been suffering from a great deal of sciatica pain, I decided to go and keep him cheered up. We were able to get a few errands done first like going to the bank, his getting a haircut, and picking something up at Home Depot. Then we met this man for dinner. I found the whole evening to be very boring. The man talked...a LOT...and it was hard for both my husband and me to hear him because the restaurant was loud, and he talked softly and fast. But the stuff he did talk about was all work-related and catching up on a lot of people they used to work with. So I just sat back and listened and ate. My food was really good though. I had a crab cake sandwich with lettuce and tomato and a side of sweet potato fries. Both of the men had salmon and a side...and neither one ate much of their side dish (spicy creamed corn for my husband and fried green beans for the other man). But we all shared dessert which was a delicious lemon blueberry bread pudding with a side of vanilla ice cream. On the way home, my husband said the best part of the evening was dessert, and sitting next to me at dinner. Hurray! That was worth going for. Have you ever gone out to dinner and been totally bored by the conversation?
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@JudyEv (325955)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Jun
I've had my share of these sorts of meals and/or conversations. Some people have no idea how to share the discussion with others. I'm glad your meal was enjoyable and that was a lovely compliment from your husband.
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@JudyEv (325955)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Jun
@Kouponkaren Wait till you get to 51 years!!
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• United States
14 Jun
@JudyEv Yes it was. I agree and feel fortunate that he feels that way about my company after being "old married folk" for over 12 years!
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• Pakistan
8 Jun
Sounds like a mixed bag of an evening! Boring conversations, but at least the food was on point. And hey, the best part was getting to enjoy dessert and sitting next to your husband. Sometimes, it's the little things that make it all worth it. And yes, this has happened to me several times. What I find funny is the awkward pause.
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• United States
14 Jun
@zainkhan121 You brought up a good point that I hadn't thought about. I love to sit next to my husband when we go out to eat, but her prefers to sit across from me so he can talk to me face-to-face. But when we go out with other people, it's nice to be able to sit next to him.
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@AmbiePam (85604)
• United States
8 Jun
It’s always nice to have a human security blanket when we haven’t seen someone in ages, and suddenly have to spend time with them again. We also have someone to help us get out of awkward situations that way! It was really sweet of you to give in, and go with him. When one of my friends contacted me to get together after not having seen each other in about 17 years, I was nervous, but excited. However, I didn’t count on not being able to hear her because she she talks so softly! We started meeting up about once a month, and each time I wanted to yell, “Speak up!” The only time she ever bores me though is when she talks about getting into public health with her second Masters degree. She went into a long description of the public wells for the city drinking water, and my eyes glazed over. Apparently, this involves taking tours of these water systems, one which she has already visited. I just reminded myself of all the boring things I’ve brought up in the past.
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• United States
14 Jun
@AmbiePam Ha ha...that made me smile when you said what you remind yourself of!
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@jstory07 (134434)
• Roseburg, Oregon
8 Jun
At least the dessert was good and you enjoyed the rest of your meal. I went to lots of meals at restaurants with my husband's family and they always talk between themselves. But that was ok he was spending time with his family.
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• United States
14 Jun
@jstory07 That's very forgiving and patient of you to have that attitude. Your husband is fortunate to have you for a wife!
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@1creekgirl (40562)
• United States
8 Jun
At least you got a cool compliment from your husband!
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• United States
14 Jun
@1creekgirl Yep, I guess it was worth going for after all.
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@Fleura (29141)
• United Kingdom
8 Jun
I hate those events for workers and their partners (usually wives/girlfriends) and the assumption that you will get along with those people when you have absolutely nothing in common other than that you have some sort of relationship with someone who works for the same company. Honestly you would probably have more to talk about with someone you just passed on the street. I remember actually crying at one event, thinking 'Has my life come to this??' Thankfully that was decades ago, a different life.
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• United States
14 Jun
@Fleura Oh my, that must have been a really horrible event to make you feel that bad. I hope you never have had to go to one of those again.
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@Fleura (29141)
• United Kingdom
14 Jun
@Kouponkaren Thankfully I no longer have that life : )
@RebeccasFarm (86772)
• United States
16 Jun
Your husband is so nice Karen Sorry the dinner was boring. Oh yes I am bored a lot by people
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@wolfgirl569 (95368)
• Marion, Ohio
8 Jun
I have but your husband made it worth it
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@porwest (78759)
• United States
18 Jan
I try to make it a point to go out anywhere with people I generally like. But I guess it does happen that won't always be the case. Rare for me, though. At least you mostly enjoyed your meal and hubby mostly enjoyed your company more than HIS company. lol