HUSBANDS SPANKING THERE WIVES

United States
December 1, 2006 3:55pm CST
oK before you deam me CRAZY let me tell you about a little I am 23 I am a Female I am married and I get spankings from My husband Not play or bed time ones either Before you critize Me know that when I got with him before we got married I asked this out of him I felt I need it in my life. He is cruel or mean and he is very loveing when he does spank me. I am just wondering how other view this personal I dont want to be critize there are lots of people that live this type of life style that are wanting this life style I want to know what other males think and females both.
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58 responses
• United States
1 Dec 06
I don't believe that this is normal, you feel the need to be punished and are asking him to punish you. You are enjoying it and that is not normal, being hit by someone is not a good thing and no one deserves that.
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• United States
1 Dec 06
No i dont enjoy it at all it hurts but It make me want to act better
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@kawillow74 (1417)
• United States
2 Dec 06
Ok I think their is something wrong with you asking him to do that and he is just as crazy for doing it. That is just right down strange. You 2 need help.
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@amy0214 (1513)
• United States
4 Dec 06
I agree with you
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• Australia
14 Dec 06
just because we might not agree with what 2 consenting adults do or like the same thing, doesnt mean they need help. have none of you ever tied up your partner for a bit of fun in bed???? because that is a part of the same lifestyle...just a different aspect
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@sunrisekn (1469)
• United States
2 Dec 06
It's nothing I want done to me, but to each his own. If you feel like you need discipline, then go for it. If it works for you then who are we to say that it shouldn't be done. Good luck with it.
• United States
2 Dec 06
thanks for your post
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@Pythonis (233)
• United States
12 Dec 06
I agree- if it makes you happy and enhances your relationship, have at it!
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@mayammb (1818)
• Australia
1 Dec 06
i feel sick to hear about this.
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• United States
1 Dec 06
can you explain why if this makes me happy and I feel right in my world why does it make you sick
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• United States
2 Dec 06
I have a personal question, and if you don't want to answer I can understand. Does you feeling that you need to be unished by your husband stem from childhood? What do you do that is so bad that you need to be spanked? Just curious!!!
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• United States
2 Dec 06
Yeah, I don't get this at all. Sorry, I am not critizing you, but it is very strange.
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• United States
2 Dec 06
Well I am not going to say that it doesnt stem from my childhood or that it does because im not sure why I feel this away except for when I do wrong I feel I need this, ok as far as what have I do so bad I have done anything that bad just you be human sometimes we lie sometimes we speed and get a ticket sometimes we have attiudes I feel when my husband spanks me I can manage thoughs things I do and I dont do them as much it gives me an incentive to do good keeps me on the right track makes me a better wife. I respect my husband A lot more than your wives do. I just feel like its help us be a better couple.
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• United States
4 Dec 06
Well if that is what keeps your marriage together than good for you. How long have you been married?
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• Philippines
2 Dec 06
i think he is not right in the head, but that's just my opinion
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• United States
2 Dec 06
well I think he is my perfect man!
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• Australia
14 Dec 06
i so want to comment to all these posts but it would be the same as the other ones ive already said.. hon if you are happy, dont worry about what anyone else thinks....but there are groups out there who think like you...
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@lucy02 (5018)
• United States
2 Dec 06
Hey if you two are okay with it then it's fine as long as he's not seriously hurting you.
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• United States
2 Dec 06
thank you for that no he doesnt seriously hurt me dont get me wrong it hurts but not long term god I love him so much you just dont know but thanks for not being mean I got a lot of mean responds. lol
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• United States
2 Dec 06
I did not even read through all the answers you got. I want to throw up. No man should ever be allowed to treat you that way. This is not a lifestyle, but a sickness for either one or both of you. A child needs occasionally to be spanked, but a partner??????? Maybe you still need a father figure or you both need help. I do not mean to judge, but you asked the question. I pray for both of you.
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• United States
2 Dec 06
well I pray for you to have an open mind cause it seems shut, boy your probally a boring person but hell what do I know Im just a un normal person haha yea well at least im happy
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@00fear (3193)
• United States
2 Dec 06
this not normal at all, how does he spank you? like HOW? Does he sit down making you lie on his lap with your stomach facing down? like the ways mothers do to their kids? still no matter how he spanks you in a not playing around situation, it is still wrong.
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• United States
2 Dec 06
I got a question for you what is normal? ever one has kinks so there is no normal! Do you mean Im not like you? Then I will agree I am unique and diff and yes when im naughty I get my bottom spanked and I feel its normal for me!
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@chiquitita (1230)
• Indonesia
2 Dec 06
Spanking spouse is a violence in a family. Violence isn't only done physically, but also mentally. It's somehow cannot be tolerate. In my country, as wives, we can sue for divorce if that happen. I personally think that only the cowards and moron who like to beat women. A real gentleman just cant even do that.
@malsun (1530)
• United States
2 Dec 06
well i feel you both are mad to want this kind of life. but then its your life. if at all you feel like changing this lifestyle, seek some professional help.
• United States
2 Dec 06
well if you think we are then you think a whole lot of people are because there are literly thousands of people that practice this kind of life. Most of the women ask there men to do this
• United States
29 Dec 06
you said that most of the women ask their men to do this. most women in society? or in the cases where this is happening, it's mostly the women who are asking the men? because i think it's safe to assume that most women do not ask their men to spank their wives as a form of punishment for whatever wrong they feel they've done during their day or week.
@baysmummy (1639)
• Australia
2 Dec 06
I honestly think you are both crazy, and probably a prefect couple he enjoys spanking you and you enjoy being spanked for being naughty! Please remember you are an adult, your are a grown up not a child anymore! What about when he is naughty do you spank him?
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• United States
2 Dec 06
I do know I am adult thats not what this is about and no I dont spank him first because he didnt ask and never implied he wanted me too and secondly I am submissive I dont think I could act as the dominant one. Not in my makeup i guess
@soldenski (2505)
• United States
2 Dec 06
Why would you want someone to control you and make you behave. I assume you had parent's who taught you right from wrong. You became an adult. I would not allow someone to treat me this way, I am better then that. I have too much esteem to allow this kind of behavior. Wake up, you don't need to behave better, you need to get out of this relationship, let me rephrase that dictatorship, and stop allowing yourself to be abused. If he really is loving, he would not be punishing you or spanking you.
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• United States
2 Dec 06
to me he is loving because he is willing to spank me
• Canada
2 Dec 06
i think it is a little weird but i guess some people feel that it will help them in life then that is something that they do. i just want to say this i dont think its wrong or anything just something i have never really heard of so its sorta new to me. but its something interesting
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• United States
2 Dec 06
Thank you, you sound like my best friend when I first told her about it when I was 16 she said the same thing that it is interesting and thanks for saying you didnt think it was wrong that means alot to me!
@schilds (410)
• United States
22 Feb 08
I know this is a really old post, and with so many responses I didn't read through all of them just skimmed, but if this works for your relationship - OK. Whatever you and your husband choose to do behind closed doors is your business. My only concern is that you are taking your husband, who is supposed to be your partner, and making him a father figure. That might be OK at 23 when you feel you still need that, but what will happen at 40 when you are ready for a partner, not a dad?
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@kkanaka (888)
• Singapore
22 Feb 08
Your husband should love you very much and truly to cater to your wishes, you are lucky to have such a loving husband. Happy living
21 Feb 08
I would never, ever hit my wife, no matter what.
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• United States
5 Feb 07
I know this was posted a long time ago, but you got so many mean responses that I just wanted to say: my girlfriend and I do the exact same thing; I know exactly how you feel. Maybe it's not "normal" in that *everyone* doesn't do it, but I don't think that it's sick, or wrong. It helps you, and it's a less destructive outlet than a lot I can think of, so why let other people get you down?
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@aslygirl (531)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
Hmmm I think this is crazy no one women wants to be just like that.I think you must go to a psychiatrist, no offense but i think you need help.Theres nothing wrong if you go and seek help.
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• United States
29 Dec 06
This is part of the BDSM life style it is not only men that spank and other things women but the other way around some times the woman is in control the mistress /master the man is the sub/submissive .
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