Dirty wood floor?

@Shasha_ (1017)
Envigado, Colombia
July 15, 2023 7:47pm CST
A friend of mine invited me to hang out at her apartment. This was not the first time I came to her house. I know that I have to wear my shoes all the time while I'm in her apartment. Last time I walked around her apartment with my bare feet again, and then my feet were black again. I don't know what happened with her wood floor. I think she never cleaned her wood floor. Or... I don't know She didn't say anything when she saw me keeping my shoes on while in her apartment. And I didn't ask her if she ever cleaned her wood floor or not. What do you think about my actions?
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@AmbiePam (86586)
• United States
16 Jul
Maybe the varnish on the wood floor was cheap, or done improperly and is now wearing off? I think if you wanted to keep your shoes on, then that was perfectly fine. Or, perhaps she only sweeps her floor, and never actually "mops" it. It might very well be because she does not keep it clean like you said.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
16 Jul
It could be the case. What I can explain to you is that her wood floor looked oily, and it was a bit sticky. I think she never mopped it either.
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@AmbiePam (86586)
• United States
16 Jul
@Shasha_ That sounds like varnish, although it also sounds like a cleaner I used twice for wood. Once should have been enough! The cleaner itself was really dark, but if you didn’t really put some effort into it, the liquid wouldn’t absorb, and if you touched it later, it would stain your skin dark. With you saying oily and sticky, I’m guessing it isn’t traditional dirt and grime on the bottom of your feet or on the wood floor.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
18 Jul
@AmbiePam No idea. But you might be right.
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@sallypup (58732)
• Centralia, Washington
16 Jul
I'm sorry about you having to deal with that. Just do what feels comfortable for you.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
16 Jul
I didn't want to be rude, but I didn't know what to do anymore.
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@youless (112243)
• Guangzhou, China
16 Jul
I don't know. Usually we will see whether there are more slippers at the door. If so, usually we have to put off shoes to enter inside. Or I will ask the house owner whether I should take off my shoes. Especially she is your friend, it is fine to ask her and there is nothing to feel embarrassing.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
16 Jul
She is my friend, that's true. But she is a kind of person who seems to be close minded. So, I need to think twice before I say something negative about her or her belongings.
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@LadyDuck (463157)
• Switzerland
16 Jul
May be the wood floor has been stained with a darker varnish that gets off.
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@LadyDuck (463157)
• Switzerland
18 Jul
@Shasha_ Even if she cleans that substance will continue to come out from the wood.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
18 Jul
It can be the case. But I hope she will clean her floor next time.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
18 Jul
@LadyDuck Now, it seems more complicated.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
16 Jul
If she doesn't mind you wearing your shoes in her apartment then by all means do. If she objects tell her why.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
16 Jul
Good point. She seemed to be okay, though.
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• India
17 Jul
Could be they are always busy with work or are lazy to clean or some other reason. You did well to keep your shoes on
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• India
18 Jul
@Shasha_ maybe they are lazy and don't like to clean the house. They should buy vacuum cleaner or hire someone to clean
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
18 Jul
@Butterfingers Yeah, she should have been hiring someone to take care of her wood floor since she's busy ... or doesn't know how to clean it, ..or just being lazy.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
18 Jul
She always said to me that she is a busy person. But,... I don't think it's true.
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@marguicha (217269)
• Chile
16 Jul
In my country, nobody takes off their shoes indoors.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
16 Jul
Really? So next time I can tell her that I will act like a Chilean woman
@allknowing (130980)
• India
17 Jul
Unless it is water proof a wooden floor will not take mopping well I think
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
18 Jul
I'm sure if hers is waterproof or not.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
16 Jul
As long as your friend allowed you to wear your shoes, I don't see anything wrong with it. Obviously she hasn't cleaned her floor. I wouldn't go barefoot on a dirty floor.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
16 Jul
I agree with you, Toni. She seemed fine to see me walking with my shoes on while in her apartment.
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@PurnaSharma (2561)
• Guwahati, India
20 Jul
Sorry, you had a bad experience with your's friend apartment.
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• Guwahati, India
20 Jul
@Shasha_ I know you can tackle.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
20 Jul
That's okay. I could handle it by keeping my shoes on.
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@jstory07 (134834)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Jul
I think you did the right thing by keeping your shoes on.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
16 Jul
Thank you. I thought so, too.
@aninditasen (15848)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul
We don't usually find wood floors in India except some cold places like Khasmir or Darjeeling. How do you clean wood floors?
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@aninditasen (15848)
• Raurkela, India
18 Jul
@Shasha_ I see. We have floors laid with glaze tiles in India or marbles. I or the maid mops the floor everyday.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
18 Jul
Wood floor really helps to make rooms warm. I don't need to clean my wood floor everyday. I sweep my floor everyday, and I mop it once a week.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
18 Jul
@aninditasen Tiles or marbles are easier to clean, I think.
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@Hannihar (130238)
• Israel
16 Jul
@Shasha_ I look at it this way that a person has to do what they have to do. Since you feel uncomfortable on her wood floor you should keep your shoes on.
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@Hannihar (130238)
• Israel
16 Jul
@Shasha_ Thank you.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
16 Jul
You got it. I did it because I had to do it.
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