She's better now, but I'll miss her.
@1creekgirl (40604)
United States
July 22, 2023 3:23pm CST
My first cousin Mary Lynn in Richmond VA passed away today.
She was in a nursing home for many years with Alzheimers. We're the same age...we were close when we were young, but grownup life can interrupt relationships.
She had amazing younger sisters. They took such good care of her at the nursing home, even after she no longer knew them.
The last time Dale and I went to see her...goodness, close to a year ago now before I got sick...she didn't seem to know us, but right as we were leaving, she said Vicki.
Don't know any arrangements yet, but I'm sure it won't hurt me to miss one radiation treatment this week so we can go to the funeral.
Mary Lynn was so pretty and friendly and funny...and was the cool girl I always wanted to be.
I'll miss her.
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@Chellezhere (5363)
• United States
22 Jul
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Mary Lou, and the rest of your family today.
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@kaylachan (58114)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Jul
She's looking down on you. She loves you too I am sure.
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@1creekgirl (40604)
• United States
23 Jul
We did have lots of fun together when we were young.
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@marguicha (215763)
• Chile
23 Jul
I´m so very sorry! Do try to arrange the time of your treatment. There´s nothing you can do there and she would have wanted you to take care of yourself. Beautiful picture
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@1creekgirl (40604)
• United States
23 Jul
@TheHorse I appreciate your kind words.
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@TheHorse (206316)
• Walnut Creek, California
23 Jul
@1creekgirl I thought so. Sorry to hear you lost your cousin and friend.
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@1creekgirl (40604)
• United States
23 Jul
It meant so much that she said my name the last time we saw her at the nursing home.
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@1creekgirl (40604)
• United States
23 Jul
@JudyEv It really meant a lot. The whole visit, she barely looked at anyone and just mumbled. Then right as we were leaving, she said Vicki.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Jul
@1creekgirl That would have been so special.
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@GardenGerty (157652)
• United States
23 Jul
I am sorry she suffered with Alzheimer's. I am glad you had the friendship you did. She did still know and feel it.
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@1creekgirl (40604)
• United States
23 Jul
I believe there was still a small part of her that knew how much she was loved. Her siblings took such good care of her for so many years.
@RebeccasFarm (86832)
• United States
22 Jul
Rest in Peace Precious Cousin.So sorry Vicki.
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@LadyDuck (458967)
• Switzerland
23 Jul
@1creekgirl I am sure she is and happy with no more pain.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
22 Jul
My sincere condolences to you and your family.
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@Deepizzaguy (94813)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
22 Jul
I am sorry to learn that your first cousin passed away.
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@Deepizzaguy (94813)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
23 Jul
@1creekgirl You are welcome.
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@1creekgirl (40604)
• United States
23 Jul
It's good we can't see the future. It makes us depend on God.
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@almostoveryou (4250)
• Philippines
24 Jul
Very sorry that you lost your cousin Mary Lynn. May she rest in peace.
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@gnatsmom (2371)
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23 Jul
So sorry for your loss. I understand. My grandmother had Alzheimer's. I prayed and prayed for God to heal her. Then He revealed to me that He did. He gave her perfect healing. And, although, we miss her terribly, she is in the perfect place, completely healed, and singing "How Great Thou Art" in the presence of our Heavenly Father.
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@1creekgirl (40604)
• United States
23 Jul
I totally believe that. We've had so many family members with Alzheimers.
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@1creekgirl (40604)
• United States
22 Jul
That's what I've been praying for days now that God would welcome her to His home.
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@RasmaSandra (73675)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Jul
So sorry for your loss. She has been released and is free and happy now, Virtual hugs to you and now you have another Guardian Angel in Heaven, I am glad you have the memories,
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@1creekgirl (40604)
• United States
23 Jul
Thanks, Rasma, I really do have a lot of good memories with my cousin.
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@MarieCoyle (28948)
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23 Jul
I'm sorry you lost your cousin. It's good that you have some good memories of her. I hope you can go to the services for her if you are able to reschedule your appointment.
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