I AM NOT WORTHY ENOUGH
@princessmarie (1045)
Philippines
October 19, 2023 9:32pm CST
I just want to share something:
Last Oct 1, 2023 we attended the death anniversary of my husband's grandfather.
My Mother-in-law and other aunties was in the living room and we were having some conversations until 1 of the aunties asked me if I am pregnant and I told her that I am not and the doctor is not yet allowing me to get pregnant because of some health conditions that may arise and my life will be at risk.
That the same auntie told me that I am not worthy enough because I can't bare a child anymore. I just kept quiet and never stooped down at her level.
I just stood up and went inside our room and cried my heart out, because she was never there at my side during my two miscarriages and she has done nothing in my life.
My husband told me that he will talk to her. I told my husband that never expect from me that I will still respect his auntie, because she disrespected me not just being his wife but as a woman.
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@AmbiePam (86122)
• United States
20 Oct
Honey, that woman is a sad, miserable person who feels so inwardly inadequate, that she tries to make others feel as badly as she does. Children or not, you are worth 10 times more than her, in your grace and classy spirit. You are right to stay away from her, and I hope your husband puts her in her place. I am so sorry she dared to open her ignorant mouth.
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@princessmarie (1045)
• Philippines
20 Oct
That time, I really like to answer back, but I just let it slide, because my Mom in-law was there. I just turned my back from them and went inside our bed room.
I told my husband she was never there when I had my 2 miscarriages and she doesn't have any idea what my journey was and how I am dealing with my depression.
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@AmbiePam (86122)
• United States
20 Oct
@princessmarie It is absolutely ridiculous, and shameful of her to speak that way.
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@princessmarie (1045)
• Philippines
20 Oct
@AmbiePam I agree. and she was very loud when she said it Infront of my in-law and other aunties. I regret going there and listened to their conversations. she was not ashamed of telling me infront of everyone that I am not worthy just because my doctors is not yet allowing me to get pregnant.
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@princessmarie (1045)
• Philippines
20 Oct
I agree.. she was rude and after saying her piece she just laugh! i was so annoyed and pissed of her attitude towards me not getting pregnant again.
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@zhangxueying (3035)
• China
20 Oct
She is indeed a bit excessive. Don't pay attention to them and keep a good mood. Some people just like to sprinkle salt on others' wounds, so speaking is also an art
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