Is it just me or.... Lol!

United States
January 23, 2024 11:57am CST
Just a thought I feel like when I make into my 40's I want to be stable in every area and really enjoy life so if by age 40 I'm not in a relationship I'm just goin to enjoy life as is I don't feel like I want to be dating in my 40's especially how the dating world is these days you really never know who you are really getting to know or think you are getting to know its scary but im in my early 30's so i still have time lol just a thought. Comment below your thoughts and if u set up certain boundaries for certain age groups you reach in general or are u just goin with the flow no matter your age ?
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@sharonelton (25071)
• Lichfield, England
24 Jan
I'm 54 and I haven't had a boyfriend since I was 12! I really need a boyfriend and it makes me very sad.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
24 Jan
Has any man ever requested to be your boyfriend?
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• Nairobi, Kenya
25 Jan
@sharonelton Sorry about that. Does that mean you don't have any child?
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@sharonelton (25071)
• Lichfield, England
24 Jan
@mildredtabitha No! I've fancied several but they never felt the same way about me!
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@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
23 Jan
I go with the flo. But a word of wisdom, you have to go after what you're searching for. Very nice eligible bachelor's at church and on college campuses and college associations. Of course there's local clubs but certainly look for a man WITH a job!!
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• Nairobi, Kenya
24 Jan
Why a man with a job?
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@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
24 Jan
@mildredtabitha gotta eat!! Love don't pay bills.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
25 Jan
@db20747 Alright. I'll put that in mind and take it as advice.
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@kaylachan (57909)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
23 Jan
You should always keep yourself open to relationships. Regardless your age. My husband tried to set that "boundary" and failed. In doing so he met and married me. Love isn't that complicated, and neither are relationships. The best love is the love you're not looking for.
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@kaylachan (57909)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
24 Jan
@kimmyxoxo1 I'm speaking from personal experience.
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• United States
23 Jan
ok sounds convincing lol thanks for responding!
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
25 Jan
I got married at the age of 29 years. I never thought of dating any one. Ours was an arranged marriage which is very common in our country.
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@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
28 Jan
How does this work? Who arranged the marriage and where do they find your wife .