My mother leaves for Florida for a month tomorrow

@NJChicaa (116304)
United States
February 9, 2024 4:32pm CST
My parents' best friends spent like 6 weeks in St. Petersburg last winter and loved it. I think my parents were planning to go with them this year but obviously my dad cannot do that. My mother gave up on the idea after my dad died but her best friends insisted that she join them and bought her the round-trip flight as her Christmas present. So she flies down there tomorrow. Her being gone for a month will not affect my life in any way. Despite the fact that we live within like 20 minutes of each other I really don't see her other than on holidays and birthdays. We aren't close and are very much like oil and water. We both have made an effort to communicate more regularly since Dad passed but the fact remains that we are just 2 very different people. I am curious how my sister is going to deal with her being gone for a month. Both my sister and BIL leave before 7 am to go to work. My mother has been showing up at like 6 am on each school day to watch the kids and get them off to school. In December my mother sold her house and actually moved in with my sister and her family so she became like a live-in nanny. I don't know what my sister is going to do about the kids in the morning during the week. They certainly can afford YKids but I doubt they will utilize that option. So we shall see.
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@moffittjc (118820)
• Gainesville, Florida
9 Feb
It will be interesting to see what your sister does with the kids. With mom living with them, I would assume they had conversations about her going to St. Pete? Maybe they had plenty of time to work things out. How long is your mom going to be in St. Pete?
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@NJChicaa (116304)
• United States
10 Feb
I think a month. I am not part of the conversations about her life.
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@moffittjc (118820)
• Gainesville, Florida
10 Feb
@NJChicaa She'll have fun for the month she's here.
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@RebeccasFarm (86976)
• United States
10 Feb
I hope she will have a nice time.
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@RasmaSandra (74146)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Feb
Well, best of luck to your sister, I know your mom will certainly enjoy herself in Florida, Our temps are turning warmer, spring is coming, and there is none of the intolerable heat of summer, Right now St Pete has 67 and all week into the 70s with some 50s at night,
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@TheHorse (207512)
• Walnut Creek, California
10 Feb
My brother and I have made strides in being more mutually supportive.
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@just4him (308692)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
10 Feb
I hope your mother has a pleasant time in St. Petersburg. I'm sure your sister will survive.
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• Beckley, West Virginia
10 Feb
I'm sure they will miss their live-in nanny. The conversation has had to come up about her going away so your sister could make arrangements. It will be good for your mom to get away. I am sure she will have a good time with her friends. I am sorry to hear of your dad's passing.
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@GardenGerty (157915)
• United States
10 Feb
Moving in with your sister may have been comforting, but I hope that she maintains her independence by doing things like this trip. Your sister and BIL will just have to work things out.
@kaylachan (58992)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Feb
It will be up to her and her husband to figure out I guess. I am sure that this isn't new.
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@LindaOHio (158688)
• United States
10 Feb
Our aborted trip to the Keys was supposed to be for a month. I wish we had been able to go. I hope our mom enjoys herself and your sister has a way to take care of the kids. Have a good weekend.
@Happy2BeMe (99386)
• Canada
9 Feb
They will definitely miss their liveo in nanny. It will be nice for her to get away and spend time with her friends.
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@MarieCoyle (29518)
10 Feb
My youngest daugher lives in St. Pete with her little family. I have been there many times, it's a very nice place. Hopefully, she will enjoy herself and some time with her friends. Your sister and husband hopefully worked all of the details out so as to have child care. I have a friend who cares for her 2 grandsons a lot. Her daughter kept putting off getting some back-up child care, then my friend got sick and had to go through surgery and cancer treatments. Daughter had to scramble for good child care, I think she learned her lesson about not having a back-up.