I'm sorry to bother you

This is also coming from the same sister-in-law who fussed over her dog's picture being on social media. I honestly don't need anything for Monther's days. It's not her job even if she wants to. She has no right to demand I give her a picture or for me to take a picture. It's one thing if she asked, hey, is it alright if I make something or get you something for Mother's Day then I might have said yes. Again she knew I was doing stuff today and asked by saying sorry to bother you. Now after sending that message she asked me 2 hours later if I could for 2 days dog sisters for her during the summer vs. finding or paying someone to take care of her dog because my dad won't be home all day while they are gone on vacation. That gives off the vibe of her doing something nice for me there for that means I have to do something for her in return.

Me told her that I don't need anything. If I'm getting anything from Mother's day it should be from my husband and my kids. I'm their mother, not her mother. I never get her anything for Mother's day because she isn't my mom. She isn't insisting she is demeaning. I don't do demands. She only wants to do something so that I have to feel obligated to what her dog for 2 days. Because 2 hours later after this message she bothered me again.