I need a break
By Diana
@dya80dya (33641)
April 18, 2024 2:48pm CST
Today my father called me crazy and he said that he couldn't stand my mom and me. He wants to find another woman. I took a break here too because I can't see well. I have a new health problem. I have a blurred vision. I will answer all notifications when I can see better. I really need to take a break and not see my father for a long time. I wish I could go somewhere. He offended me and my mom today. Even if he drinks a lot he starts to yell and he doesn't accept that he has a problem. This isn't going to end well. He says that he wants to leave. He thinks that we are both crazy. Maybe he was angry, but he shouldn't offend us. I tried to please him and this was a huge mistake. I wonder if there is something that can be done. Or maybe we should not see each other anymore.
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@LeaPea2417 (36486)
• Toccoa, Georgia
18 Apr
Maybe your Mom needs to leave him and take you with her. Make it official with filing for divorce. Also, really you should see an eye doctor that can prescribe you glasses that could help your vision.
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@LeaPea2417 (36486)
• Toccoa, Georgia
20 Apr
@dya80dya I wish there was a way for you to be able to live on your own away from them.
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@RebeccasFarm (86833)
• United States
18 Apr
I am sorry about your vision..I hope that somehow you can get that seen to Diana.
He is really abusive.
He is really abusive.1 person likes this
@RebeccasFarm (86833)
• United States
20 Apr
@dya80dya I also have it but not severe and I find that a small few drops of tea tree oil in warm water and a clean cotton wipe will help it.
Here, we also have something you can buy without a prescription called Occusoft wipes.
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@dya80dya (33641)
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22 Apr
@RebeccasFarm I will try to do the same. I read that tea tree oil is useful. Did you have a blurry vision too because of it?
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@sabtraversa (12996)
• Italy
18 Apr
Blurred vision can be due by many things, hopefully your vision will improve soon but it's worth mentioning that to your doctor. It could be caused by stress, it'd make perfect sense. 
Yes, it sounds like your dad was angry. Drunk and angry, very bad combo.
And if he believes nothing is wrong with him, nothing can be done. Besides, I don't know how he'll find another woman in his current situation. 
Yes, it sounds like your dad was angry. Drunk and angry, very bad combo.
And if he believes nothing is wrong with him, nothing can be done. Besides, I don't know how he'll find another woman in his current situation. 1 person likes this
@RasmaSandra (73643)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
18 Apr
I hope once you calm down your blurred vision will clear up. Sorry about your dad, Your and your mom need to either put dad out of the home or find another place to live and leave him behind,
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@RasmaSandra (73643)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
20 Apr
@dya80dya Sorry to hear that I wish the best for you and will put you in my prayers,
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@grenery8 (2351)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
22 Apr
my only advice is ignore him or scenario 2, when he says he will leave, you say that indeed he should leave, that you don't need his negativity anymore. i am really sorry for this situation. if your mother can go somewhere else with you, that would be perfect.
are you many hours online, is that why your vision became blur?
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