Thoughts About Those Who Like to Be Alone

@celticeagle (159609)
Boise, Idaho
April 26, 2024 6:18pm CST
I have always been a loner. I didn't have a lot of friends, nor was I a social butterfly. I was very shy when younger and introverted. I often felt like there was something wrong with me. But, over the years I have been happy with living inside my head and it doesn't bother me as much. I recently listened to a video on a YouTube channel called "Brainy Dose" concerning Facts About Those Who Like to be Alone. All of it made so much sense. People who spend much time alone with their thoughts enjoy abstract thinking and complex problem-solving skills. They want to learn without external prompts. They are able to turn times of solitude into times of personal growth. Those who find solous in their own company are able to handle uncertainties calmly with inner strength which reflects inner strength. These people have highly individual value systems, great integrity, and a strong sense of self. People who spend time alone are often driven by an inner passion. They pursue things for personal fulfillment and the satisfaction of seeing personal progress. The chaos of the outer world fades away revealing a world of simplicity. People who seek out solitude often exhibit an appreciation for minimalism. Not only in their lifestyle but in their surroundings as well. Quality or quantity. This gives them a life of clarity. Solitary individuals often develop a keen sense of intuition. Being away from the opinions and thoughts of others lets them connect with their own thoughts and feelings. This profound internal connection heightens their sensitivity and helps them to make decisions that are truly aligned with their true selves. This all sounds so typical of how I feel and I didn't really understand these things until I saw this video. I had been living much of it and not realizing it. Are you a solitary person? Does any of this ring true to your life?
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@sallypup (58185)
• Centralia, Washington
27 Apr
I wasn't shy in school. I just didn't bond with many people and the other girls seemed intent on silly things that I didn't want to be involved with.
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@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Apr
Sounds like me. I usually had a few friends but wasn't real social. Loved to read and keep to myself.
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@FourWalls (62517)
• United States
27 Apr
Yes, I love being a loner. “Quality,” indeed.
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@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Apr
Yes, you're a deep thinker.
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@sabtraversa (13053)
• Italy
26 Apr
Yes, not all introverts are the same but I resonate with most of this. Another thing I believe about introverts is that their social battery appears to be low because they use 110% of their brains when engaging in the external world, they listen deeply and pay attention to many details, constantly comparing the incoming info with their set of experiences and beliefs to understand things better and perhaps come up with solutions. That's a lot of work! And society doesn't appreciate such effort most of the time, unfortunately.
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@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Apr
Some have other issues and reasons. I think people watchers are sometimes introverts and such. The thinkers come up with ideas and the socialites are just that, social.
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@just4him (307505)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Apr
Much of this does, though I'm not a minimalist. I've had to downsize a few times and still have a lot of stuff.
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@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
30 Apr
@just4him .......It is. I wish I hadn't gotten rid of some stuff now from time to time.
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@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Apr
I'm not a big minimalist either. I like stuff but I have downsized too.
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@just4him (307505)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Apr
@celticeagle It's hard to downsize.
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@LindaOHio (157506)
• United States
27 Apr
I'm a bit of an introvert and a homebody; but I don't like to be alone. I've been alone since February 1 with my husband in the hospital and rehab; and I don't like it! Have a good weekend.
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@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Apr
I don't mind being alone for a while. Not all the time. I hope your husband is doing well and can come home soon. You have a nice weekend too.
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@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
28 Apr
@LindaOHio .......I hope that happens.
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@LindaOHio (157506)
• United States
28 Apr
@celticeagle I'm hoping he will be home next month. Thank you.
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@grenery8 (2675)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
30 Apr
this resonates with me. i was shy, introverted, then i acted i am not anymore but i got back to it due to some hardships and that is where i feel safe. i think i would meditate in my next life or something
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@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
30 Apr
Interesting.
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@grenery8 (2675)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
2 May
@celticeagle it is but not this life and i wish i would live on the mountain in my next life, some isolated place for sure
@BarBaraPrz (45597)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
27 Apr
I've always preferred spending time with me, myself and I... or the people in books.
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@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Apr
I do too. I find the greatest stuff to check out.
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