Short story: A psychologist writes about living a fuller life, by living from all parts of ourselves, more fully
@innertalks (21860)
Australia
May 14, 2024 7:07pm CST
The well-respected psychologist, Anton Pressnose, wrote an article, which was included in the magazine, Psychology Today, last month, on the need to mature our emotional self, and how to not let it run riot in our lives.
Here is his article:
'We live in a multi-storied house, where our soul lives on the second floor, and our physical body, emotional body, and mental body, live on the lower floor, all together.'
'Some of us, therefore, do not even know that we have a soul living upstairs in our house. We might not even know that there is an upstairs to our house.'
'Nevertheless, our soul is always there for us, to access whenever we want to do so.'
'Most of us stay mostly in our own favourite room, our mental space, trying to build it up, and to become wiser, and better thinkers, and there is nothing wrong with us doing that, but we do need to go into the other rooms of our house, sometimes too.'
'When we do so, we should not just stay in that room, by itself for too long either, so that we become too focussed only in the one are of our life, and so risk, becoming controlled, or overattached, to just that one part of ourselves, then too.'
'Our emotions must be matured, and controlled, by our mind, for example. They must not be allowed to control us, as when their animal nature, tries to take us on their ride.'
'Our physical body should not control us to by its greed for food, and other satiatments, (to coin a new word, for satiation), such as alcohol consumption, smoking, or the addiction to other substances too.'
'Self control, and self discipline, help us to live more productively, and make better use of all parts of ourselves.'
'We need to accept that we are spiritual beings too, and the Christian Bible contains much help in our seeing this vital part of ourselves as being a real part of our house too.'
'Proverbs, chapter 29, verse 11 states:'
'"A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man quietly holds it back."'
'and Saint Paul advises us like this too:'
'Romans, chapter 12, verse 2:'
'"Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect."'
'Live wisely, by living more fully then; be your complete self, and grow in each facet of yourself, to be all that you can be, for both yourself, and for God.'
And on that last note, the psychologist finished his article, in which he had made some good points on how we can better live a more fuller life.
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@innertalks (21860)
• Australia
15 May
Yes, God has given us this body, mind, and personality, and emotional setup, and placed our soul in this vehicle, to oversee our living, working in conjunction with God, himself.
When we be fully ourselves, serving God, and living from love, we will indeed know God, and his will, for our lives, as well as feel deeply his love connection to us too.
Jesus Christ also told us to love God from all parts of ourselves too.
MATTHEW, chapter 22, verse 37:
'Jesus said unto him, “‘Thou shalt love the Lord thy God, with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind."’
@psanasangma (7279)
• India
16 May
'Self control, and self discipline" is all I need at this time
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@Shiva49 (26634)
• Singapore
15 May
We fall prey to over-indulgence to satiate the body but it takes a toll soon.
In a way, the soul is the stepping stone to our being but we are blissfully unaware of its existence and pay the price by mindless wandering and meaningless existence.
Soon age catches up with the body acting up. We are left to clutch at straws then.
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@innertalks (21860)
• Australia
15 May
Yes, we should live a life from our soul down, rather than from our body up, and that way, we live connected to God, not just to our own bootstraps, which often take us in wrong directions.
The French philosopher, Pierre Teilhard de Chardin, outlined this idea, when he said:
"We are not humans having a spiritual experience, But we are a spiritual being, having a human experience."
@innertalks (21860)
• Australia
20 May
@Shiva49 If we go through life with a chip on our shoulder, which places us in the wrong state of mind, we will lock ourselves in that state, and never expand our mind to connect to greater states of mind, and to see the truth, that we are more than just our minds, but have a heart, and soul too.
@Shiva49 (26634)
• Singapore
20 May
@innertalks Yes, there is an inner prompt that we are greater than our body with an inner knowing inspiring us to reach greater ideals.
However, we reject the obvious and end up in misery.
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@zainkhan121 (859)
• Pakistan
15 May
Pressnose's article serves as a timely reminder to live consciously and holistically, embracing the richness of our entire being as we strive for personal growth and spiritual enlightenment.
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@innertalks (21860)
• Australia
15 May
Thanks. You have summed it up nicely.
Yes, we should try to live from our whole person, and not just live from any one part of ourselves, and then neglect, some part of ourselves, our spiritual side, for example
@Charlesbronson (954)
• Indonesia
17 May
I really agree. We must live fully. Uniting physical and spiritual. And what is important in life is "Think first if to do something".
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@innertalks (21860)
• Australia
17 May
When we think first with our mind, we should step back before jumping in, and think with other parts of us then too, "think" with our hearts, feel what is behind the thought, our emotions, and our bodily feelings too, and also touch base with our spiritual self, to see if it agrees with our current thinking, and proposed action too.
@innertalks (21860)
• Australia
17 May
@Charlesbronson Our mind can be inspired to speak love-infused words, from our heart, opening up our mind more too. When we then speak these words, yes, they can show others what our hearts are made of too, love.
@Charlesbronson (954)
• Indonesia
17 May
@innertalks The emotions and emoticons that we send to other people via social media and others show our mental condition. Wise people say, words are the window to the heart. What do you think?
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