What would you do if your boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on you?

United States
December 2, 2006 9:23pm CST
I'm in a relationship and at the beginning I cheated on my boyfriend. It was a difficult time. I was young and still wanted to explore. But I was falling hard for my boyfriend. I vowed to never ever do it again. He's so great to have forgiven me. We've been together for 8 years!
4 responses
• United States
3 Dec 06
Honestly I couldn't be in a relationship where someone cheated on me. I've been cheated on and I never felt the same about the person anymore. It just makes you lose trust that can never be regained, no matter what.
• United States
3 Dec 06
Well, I guess my hunnie is a great person and a bigger person for forgiving me. It took me a long time to get his trust back but I'm so happy for what he did. I don't know if I could have done the same thing.
• United States
3 Dec 06
he must have nerves of steel for being able to forgive, I know I couldn't...maybe that makes me weak that I can't forgive, but that's the one form of betrayal I couldn't handle.
• United States
3 Dec 06
He's great. That's all.
@chiquitita (1227)
• Indonesia
3 Dec 06
I cant imagine that. If that happens then it's time to end the relationship. I honestly cant go on haunted by thoughts that he would cheat on me again. I never thought about cheating my fiancé, and I want him to do the same. Cheers!
• United States
3 Dec 06
Gee, everyone is making me feel guilty. Of course I feel guilty about the situation but now I feel worse. And this happened about 7 years ago. I don't know.
@jamiesmom (240)
• United States
3 Dec 06
you are lucky ....I could not stay with someone who cheated on me. My problem is I would try to forgive but I could never forget.
• United States
3 Dec 06
I'm sure he hasn't forgotten. And I really do consider myself lucky. I can say that I found the one God wanted me to be with.
• United States
3 Dec 06
I would have kicked his butt to the curb. no second chances here. Sorry.
• United States
3 Dec 06
I beileve in second chances. After that, then thier on thier own.