Life in general
December 3, 2006 1:48am CST
Ok this is my first post and I thought I would try it out. So here goes what is on my mind. I am 24 the mother of a 3 month old and a 2 year old. I am a stay at home mom which I have come to the conclusion is the most under paid, under appreciated and hardest but yet most rewarding, neatest and best job I have ever had. I live with my kids and boyfriend in Snyder, Texas. My boyfriend is my best friend. I met him while I was in the Navy. He actually helped me get out of my going no where relationship with my dead beat ex husband. You see my ex husband was the kind of guy at first that was great. Two years later however things started going bad for him in the Navy. He lost respect for himself and me as well. Things just started going really sour between the two of us and I got a great opportunity to go underway for a few months. I thought the three months of being apart would help us. During the time I was gone I realized I was not in love with him and I did not love him anymore. So my plan was to come home and divorce him. I came home and a month later I found out I was a month pregnant with his baby. So now I thought I would keep trying things until they worked. Well things just got worst. He got fired from 7-11 and became a stay at home dad. Well guys he messed that up to. I had to do all the housework, the cooking and when I asked him when my me time was he told me when I was at work, and my ride to a from. I came home one day to find my 2 1/2 month old soaked in sweat, tears and her own pee (that is how full her diaper was) and she was just beat red. That was the last time he watched her. So I cleaned her up and went over to my friends house who is now the man I am with now. Told him what had happened. We went for a drive and that is when he told me I didn't deserve to be in such a bad relationship and I needed to get out of it. Well I am one of those people that just needs a sign. Well I looked up from the car window and on the back of a city bus was the number to a divorce lawyer. I thought that was sign enough. I divorced him and some how me and my guy started dating and now we have another beautiful daughter together. My ex wants nothing to do with his daughter that we have together which is ok because my Mr. Perfect is the best daddy in the world. Well guys I know it is a little long but I would appreciate it if you would respond to me. Thanks for listening.