marraige pb...

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ok here is the thing... i lost my mum this yr in jan...in our customs..i have to marry within the year of death or not marry for next 3 yrs..we (my guy and i) want to marry in dec..thats by the end of this month...so we fulfill this custom...but his parents are no agreeing..they want a traditional wedding..and we r both against it....god m so confused...i donno what to do..we dont want to wait till feb to marry and dont want a trad wedding..can someone make sense out of this?