would you go out with a guy who tells you that he is so broke?

@Sweety76 (1594)
India
September 16, 2006 3:07pm CST
that if he takes you out you may have to pay for dinner? should i?
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@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
17 Sep 06
If you like the guy, you should. Just because he is broke doesn't mean he isn't nice and a great guy. I wouldn't want to pay for everything all of the time, but I would every now and again.
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• United States
16 Sep 06
If you like him, you should? Why should a man's finances have anything to do with it? This isn't the 1800s; women often pay for dates, you know, especially if they ask.
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@aindnow (165)
• India
18 Sep 06
Maybe if he is bold enough to admit it and if he truly loves you
@peetred (272)
• United States
18 Sep 06
When me and my husband first met he was broke, but he used every last bit of his money to take me out. I guess that is just the way he was from the beginning. He is full of respect and his momma raised him right (for the most part, hehe). If he is a good guy, then yes go out with him, even if you have to pay for dinner.
• India
25 Oct 06
i you like that guy then you can take him with you what happen just pay for one time and ask him that from next time he will laways pay. actually many times during dtaes gals mostly pays. i think sooo.
@carlennj (589)
• United States
1 Nov 06
are you interested in him or just the date? That's what is important.
@amiksinha (1960)
• India
16 Sep 06
i wouldnt go out with a guy at all because im straight but yeah he probly is broke and isnt lying but i thlink u should probly pay for it because i mean u shouldnt do that a lot or anything but just paying for it one time i think u should. hope this helps
@bhchy1 (6047)
• United States
16 Sep 06
If I liked him..sure..sometimes I am broke, I appreciate when friends pay for me to enjoy a night out. So if I could afford to why not. Of course there are time when we are all broke...then it's called a night in with a video, popcorn and OMG..maybe an old fashioned board game and conversation..
@LANA70 (137)
• United States
16 Sep 06
Nope...he has nothing to offer...
@nextgen (1888)
• India
16 Sep 06
Did he ask you out? If so, it should be on him, but you need to communicate that right away. Don't assume. It shouldn't be you may have to. I have had a guy tell me that he didn't get paid and if we wanted to go to the movies, I would have to pay, and I did, but he's paid for other movies and lunches etc. He should tell you if you have to or not. If he keeps having you pay, I'd be very careful.