Why is it so hard to find a good man??

maybe because there are so few of them

i guess all good men are either taken of gay. :D hehe if you want to find the right man, be the right woman...

There is no recipe on how to find the right man ..I am sorry and one thing is certain - You will have to kiss a few frogs before you find Mr. Right. In my experience everything happens when the time is right. If you look desperately for someone , most probably it will not happen. The best way to go about it, is to enjoy your life as it is for now, enjoy your own company, go and take courses where you can meet new people (without having Mr.. Right in mind that is), go out and have fun and be sure one day when you least expect it he will be right there and talking to you Don't give up - I wish you all the best on your journey

it is up to you dude

i dont think there is a perfect man anywhere in this world.if you are searching for such a person then your search wont end in this life time.not all men are as bad you think.do not just form an opinion about men because of some bad experiences with one or 2 men you have met.there are good men everywhere and when the right time comes you will surely find him.