Am I so lonly today?

@1login (368)
Finland
December 6, 2006 11:29am CST
It looks like no one wants to talk to me, even so I am trying so hardly. I am alone here, in front of the computer, in a very special day both for me and for Finland. Nevertheless, I feel so lonly. I am alone. And not even in the virtual world I can receive someone to talk to. Would there be someone to cheer me up?
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15 responses
@shivanm (211)
• Trinidad And Tobago
7 Dec 06
Wow there are other people like me. I know how you feel. So we can talk and would you be my friend? Keep in touch. I'll be there.
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@Nick28 (491)
• Finland
7 Dec 06
This really makes me laugh :)). take a look here: "Many people suffering from untreated and undiagnosed depression are turning to Internet communities for help, according to a study published this week in BMC Psychiatry. Scientists believe these virtual communities could be used to offer diagnosis and support to people that are depressed, and offer the possibility of online therapy. Surveys show that the Internet is increasingly used to obtain health information and advice - in particular about mental health. Internet communities enable users to obtain expert advice and to communicate to one another about particular conditions via chat rooms and message boards. Despite their widespread use, there has been little research into the health status of users of these communities." Source: http://www.biomedcentral.com/info/about/pr-releases?pr=20031210 Well, at least looks I´m not the only one :( and this is making me to fell much better. I sent you an invitation to be my friend- at least we can be together depressive :(
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@shivanm (211)
• Trinidad And Tobago
7 Dec 06
Hey, I didn't get the invitation but I also sent a request for you to be my friend. Nice to meet you!!!
@mfrancq (1808)
• United States
6 Dec 06
No one should ever feel alone. I am so sorry you feel that way. If you want you can take my place, I have a husband that won't quit calling, a baby that won't quit crying, and a dog that follows my every step. On top of that I'm all over the internet finding ways to make money to help with the bills here so my email is crazy with offers. You are lonely and I am overwhelmed! What a great pair huh? Shouldn't there be a balance somewhere? Anyways, enough with me. Why is it you feel so lonely, are you upset about something? I have found when I feel that way it is because I have been cooped up to long and just need to get out in the world, or if something upsetting has happened. Either way you are always more then welcome to message me to talk. I'm a good listener! Best Wishes!
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@1login (368)
• Finland
6 Dec 06
I would like to have an exchange with you but I would be scared to have a baby as I´m so young for it. To have a husband is to early I think but I would consider it. However, nobody’s calling me, nobody care of me and moreover, nobody’s answering to my posts. How should I fell better this way? I am looking also for ways to earn some money on the Internet but, so far I havent found any other good programs. Instead of it I founded many scam’s - it is full of them. Do you have any other good programs to recommend me?
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• India
7 Dec 06
U r Too great U have a child and Not married ... U also said u r too young ... U Mush have some close friend's .. Which country r u from ...
@xpress (68)
• Philippines
7 Dec 06
Have you done good to someone lately ? I find helping others refreshing, though it does not always involve giving money you can find many ways to be of help to others, why not do so today, if you are doing it do it more BUT remember don't expect to much from them for the Bible says " Expectation postponed make the heart sick" Controlling our expectations may solve our loneliness. What do you think ?
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• Janesville, Wisconsin
6 Dec 06
oh, boy do I know what you mean. It is as times I feel the loneliest, is when I am crying out practically screaming to have someone to talk to, and not a single person there... Then when I start to feel better.. Without stating a thing to anyone... Bing.. Bing.... bingbingbing... Next I know... I am swamped with so many IMS at the same time that my computer freezes or crashes and its like WOE! come on where the heck was the half of ya's when I needed someone to talk to now I am sitting here happy wanting some alone time bing bing bing Waaaaaaaaan! ... Its like okay.. Where is the balance... People tend to go in cycles... with this there are times everyone is sitting there feelin down going talk to me no you talk to me first... that is when one person needs to go :) imings or :P faces.. and say something totally rediculous this usually gets people to talk :) ..... Sometimes when we are down our approaches scare people away... or our friends do not want to talk they wish they could help but really do not know how too. Hey if you ever need a friend feel free to add me. I go through moments where I'll talk about anything :) . But I go through quiet times too where it's hard to get me to say much. To get me outta those quiet times talk trains, works every time :d. Take Care, - DNatureofDTrain
@1login (368)
• Finland
7 Dec 06
As treatment for depression involves talk therapy, it could be really good to have many friends as you. I have a hard time making friends. The friends I do have tend to forget about me later down the line. I try to keep in touch and reconnect but they tend to vanish on me or become too busy to talk. Looking back I realize that I never really had lasting friendships and I kind of jumped from one friendship to the next and the number of friends never really got to double digits. Sometimes when I call them I just get voice mail messages and never get a response back within reason.
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• Janesville, Wisconsin
7 Dec 06
I been using internet chats and messengers since 1994.. So there are so many people who contact me I can't keep track... I usually am generally friends with anyone who needs on as long as they are nice and do not treat me like dirt, althought I am friends with alot who do the dirt routine on and off too. shrugs shoulders... Only online. I lost most of my friends when I graduated highschool basically lived as a shut in due to my over protective family since then.... so internet friendships are very important to me. Nice to meet you, take care. - DNatureofDTrain
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@1login (368)
• Finland
7 Dec 06
I perfectly agree with you as I also have many friends over the Internet. Instead of this, mostly of them are not exactly friends - they are much or less confidents as I I (U) will never know one each other and you are really free to talk to them. The Internet was opening a new way - a new kind of friendship - a distance one which is not all the time what I am looking for. For example, yesterday, a special day for all fins, I was feeling so lonely as I was alone in the dark, in my room - only with you guys - without any other real persons as I wanted. So, I had to celebrate with you, not with someone in a bar as the others are doing usually in such a day.
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@hmshema (685)
• India
7 Dec 06
I am also alone. I think sometimes we will have to compromise with the cituation.
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• India
7 Dec 06
Cheers, You are never alone. There is God with you
@valmiki9 (1171)
• India
7 Dec 06
you can always talk to mylot people and express your feelings. you will feel good. When so many people who wish to assist you are here you should not feel lonely.Tell me why it is a special day for youand Finland?
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• India
7 Dec 06
Hey you are here with lot of friends and you are telling that you are alone. It is not true... ok. We all the with you. Please visit discusion forum more and more. You will find many interesting subject there. Try to reply them. How the time will pass, you cannot observed. OK .... don't think that you are alone here. We all are here to keep you cheer.
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@dhpd22 (69)
• India
7 Dec 06
Hi please don't feel like this in future. If you would like to do friendship with me then I am ready. But please never feel alone. My yahoo ID is dhpd22@yahoo.co.in. You can contact me on yahoo. I will feel great if u...
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@Nick28 (491)
• Finland
7 Dec 06
Try to make the most of every chance you get to talk to people, whether it’s in a shop or on a bus. Ask them about themselves, make an effort to show an interest, to join a club or start an evening class – it’s sometimes easier to make friends with people who share the same interests as you. U have to try to think about volunteering – it can be a good way to meet new people and keep yourself busy. Doing something for other people can also make you feel better about yourself.
@sindra (1119)
• Indonesia
7 Dec 06
Why did you feel you were alone
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• Australia
7 Dec 06
hey mate its 408am where I am and I know what you mean Im in australia by the way cheer up breath the air and sit still and enjoy your company thats what I do when its like this just think at some other time you might have craved some me time take it while you can and refuel so your ready for when its the opposite
• India
7 Dec 06
if u sit with the computer who will talk. get up and get out , see some friends or just go to the nearby park and enjoy nature. its ur attitude thats depressing u. change it, find something which might engage u. set and meet a deadline. outline a programe or work shedule and keep it up
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• India
7 Dec 06
Cheers, You are never alone. There is God with you
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@ezzrssi (11197)
• Italy
7 Dec 06
mmm ok