Should I dump him?

@gotcho0O (1258)
United States
December 6, 2006 2:37pm CST
Should I dump my bf? I have this feeling that he's cheating on me. I'm not sure but it really scares me.
1 response
@ilse72 (1454)
• United States
7 Dec 06
Feelings, while ususally true, are not infallible. I would not dump your boyfriend without proof. Sooner or later, it always comes out. Have you tried the direct approach...asking him? If you have been with him long enough, you should be able to tell if he is lying. Is he seeing you less than he used to? Is he working late more and on a regular basis? Does he smell of someone else's perfume? There are many "signs" but some of them apply only if you live together. When in doubt, you can always discreetly follow him. It is hard to take any action when you are in doubt and have no proof; after all, you don't want to end a good relationship if he isn't cheating. Good luck!
@gotcho0O (1258)
• United States
7 Dec 06
Yah I believe that sooner or later it always comes out. Direct approach is not a good idea especially if he's a liar. Well, there's a point with the long enough thing. You're right, I should be able to tell myself if he's lying. Actually, we're in a long distance relationship but he didn't miss the good communication which is one of the most important when you're miles away from each other. Definitely dont want to end a good relationship if he isnt cheating. Shux!!! I wonder why there's love hahahaha. Just kidding!..Thanks, I really appreciate it. Mwahs.