Got gf problem, need some help?

Philippines
December 6, 2006 8:39pm CST
i have a gf that i love and that i have been with 4 bout 6 months but she lies all the time, even from the first minute i met her. but a couple weeks after she lies she tells the truth. should i just get rid of her or should i try to help her if i can help, i culd use some advise on helping her. and yes i love her and i will do nething 4 her.
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5 responses
@supershik (298)
• United States
7 Dec 06
Truthfully i'd tell her i'll leave you if you don't start telling me the truth maybe that'll snap her out of it. I would call her on her lies that usually makes people feel uncomfortable to stop lying. It's not worth being in uncomfortable relationship with a liar.
• Philippines
7 Dec 06
i cant slap her. . .thanks for your advice.
@silkkat (231)
• Canada
7 Dec 06
I think that you should leave her and let her work out her problems. If she gets help and changes her ways then you might be able to work things out. But if you can't trust what she says now then you won't be able to later and that will make the relationship tough.
• Philippines
7 Dec 06
I love her so much.Even she always lie to maybe thers a reason. thanks for tour advice.
@lissaj (532)
• United States
7 Dec 06
I would suggest that you sit down and talk to her about it. She may not even realize that she is doing it at the time. But if she is going to lie about little things now, what will she lie about in the future? You have to decide if you really want to go through this, because it isn't going to be easy to get her to change. It will take time.
@dhicks30 (1948)
• United States
7 Dec 06
Well that is up to you. If you love her and could see yourself with her forever. Then you could try to help her. But first she will have to admit that there is a problem. Before you will be able to help her.
• Philippines
7 Dec 06
i should suggest to talk to her first heart to heart, to ask her what is her problem, why is she lying to you when she tells the truth then, and if she trust you... if you think you two can work this problem out, then don't let go. but if she continues to do the same thing over and over, even if you love her, keep a strong faith, let her go, and move on... love is one thing but trust is also another. you will find someone who deserves you better than her. good luck! =)