Is kissing cheating???

South Africa
September 17, 2006 10:38pm CST
If you kiss someone whilst in a steady relationship cheating. personally I think if there is no emotions involved it is not
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81 responses
• United States
18 Sep 06
Why are you doing it, if there are no emotions? Here's a check to see if it's cheating: Would you tell your partner about it? If not...
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@bhbirdie6 (1771)
• United States
6 Oct 06
I like that answer. However, it may also be the case that you don't tell them simply because you don't think anything of it. It never crosses your mind to tell them because it's so natural and not a conflict with you.
@Pixell (192)
• United States
29 Sep 06
Put the shoe on the foot of your partner... you walk i on the end of a kiss........ "it was just a kiss"........ Do you feel cheated on?? You have the answer right there.. It does not matter what I think about a kiss that you are setting out in this forum in hope of ... permition to kiss again?? If I think it is wrong {and I do} it does not change the fact of your own true answer. If I say go for it kissing is fun. That does not help you get to the heart of the fact that it is you asking and looking every place but inside. Your mate kissed someone and thinks of doing it again. You did not find out so no one got hurt..... How do you feel about the kiss that you do not know about? How do you feel knowing there is a plan for another kiss you are not going to know about.. I do not know how you feel but my lips and skin and etc are connected to my heart. I know where my lips are true and where they would be more like a middle finger if i willingly placed them on the lips of some one other than my boy friend. BUT IF YOU DO KISS DON"T TELL! Unless when you picture your mate kissing around it does not hurt you. Sorry for going on so.. I just wanted to remind you the answers to this kind of question are easy to answer by simply putting yourself in the other persons place. Pixell
@mykjyn (31)
• United States
21 Sep 06
how could you think that its not cheating , kissing is a sign of love or affection and showing someone that your not in a relationship with that is not exactly fair to the other person in the relationship i definately think its a form of cheating and i dont believe that if someone did it to you you'd be ok with it....
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@shuz697 (1046)
• United States
20 Sep 06
Yes it is cheating.. That's what I think anyway.. If I found out my husband had kissed another women that would be enough for me to leave... If you can go as far as to kiss someone then I don't see why you couldn't go as far as sleeping with them.. Just because there's no emotions involved doesn't make it better that's like saying you can sleep with someone and because there was no emotion involved that makes it OK... No way..!!!...
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@jojonz (7)
• New Zealand
18 Sep 06
I have to say i think it is, even thou there have been a few times ive thought about it, but you are still crossing that line of trust between you and your partner, otherwise you midswell just go the whole ten yardsm if you know what i mean!!
• United States
9 Oct 06
Absolutely!!! Any type of physical contact is cheating. Put it to yourself this way. How would you feel if your signifigant other was kissing someone else? If it hurts you to think about it, then yes it must be cheating. And there is also something called emotional cheating. There doesn't even have to be any physical contact for it to be considered cheating.
@neon2000 (2761)
• Philippines
10 Oct 06
I agree with you. Kissing, even if having no emotions involved is still cheating. Avoid doing it. Because you are commited already, you should think that Your kiss is now reserve to your gf or bf.
@Ynefz0r (834)
• Finland
24 Oct 06
Totally agree with you ksmith2474... i would have said the same thing but you got before me :D
• United States
8 Oct 06
If there is no emotion involved in it then WHY would you do it. And yes it is cheating, kissing is one of the most intimate things there is.
@kunalsp (428)
• India
8 Oct 06
you said right if there is no immotion then it is cheating
• United States
8 Oct 06
Actually, I did say it was cheating but thank you for your reply.
@chintoosk (445)
• India
8 Oct 06
cheating is when u physically or emotionally get involved with someone else.....now you decide where you draw the line..
• United States
8 Oct 06
Well said.
@kunalsp (428)
• India
8 Oct 06
i think kissing is not cheating. if the person you are kissing gives you the permission to kiss. what you guys say
• United States
8 Oct 06
I do believe it is cheating. As I have said, it is one of the most intimate acts there is between two people and is usually a prelude to more intimacy. Unless of course we are refering to a good ole peck on the cheek.
• India
14 Sep 07
ofcrse its cheating ur partner....n haan o realtionshp can exist widout emotions dear..
@k_varunus (698)
• India
14 Nov 06
NO NOT ATALL
@msqtech (15226)
• United States
24 Oct 06
if it is a peck no but if it is more than it is cheating unless you are performing an act
@MrsFrizzle (1964)
• United States
24 Oct 06
That depends on what the people involved think.
@NOCEagle (584)
• United States
24 Oct 06
Dependes on what kind of kissing...if its like french kiss then yea...but if its just on the lips or cheek, i dont consider it cheating...i kissed my grils frind on the lips right infront of her and she didnt say anything...
@ansarkhan (2427)
• Pakistan
24 Oct 06
no thiz is tha part of love
@sbeauty (5870)
• United States
24 Oct 06
What if the emotions started with that kiss?
• Romania
23 Oct 06
of course it is,any type of physical contact with another person while u are in a relation its called cheatting,now depends what u think about it
@kikiss (431)
• Australia
17 Oct 06
i think its cheating i agree with you...
• Hyderabad, India
17 Oct 06
no, it is part of love
@psmohan (1883)
• India
16 Oct 06
Yes ofcourse unless and until without the approval of the other person.
@coolshiv (477)
• India
16 Oct 06
well...i agree wit u..hw cme it ll bcom cheatin