Drugs

tes i do think they can thats why it didn t work out with my last boyfriend (that was so for the best)he was spending all our money on it. thats when i said thats enough so i told him that he had to choose and he choose weed so i left. i have been happy every since then im not saying leave him but if he starts to change then you should think about it and don t let all the money be spent on it.

yes they r bad and r not gud for a person's health

Surely they are bad for health.

Yes I do believe it changes a Person and it is not good I am glad you keep it away from your Little one and try not to let him know that his Dad is taking it or he will grow up thinking it is ok

that all sounds fair enough

he should try not to smoke in front of his/her child nymore. as you should stop smoking because the smoke kills. all it takes is seeing how many people die every year for cause of the smoke

It sounds like your fiance has his head screwed on with smoking it. Normally (from experience here! lol) people who have smoked it for a long time tend to just smoke it on and off and not excessively. I think it's good that he's happy to go outside and not smoke it around your son. Yes, if it gets too expensive then obviously he will be smoking more and then you can say something, but as I said at the start, he seems switched on enough. I think because you respect him for him doing it that he respects you by living by your rules.

yes

why shouldn't they be, imagine taking a medicine which was supposed to cure you of some disease or sickness and you take it regularly with you being sick or having any illness, so what do you think you will take when you really fall sick.

Of course it changes them. they are under influence. For the sake of your son, your family make your husband stop. Don't condone his actions.