December 7, 2006 9:14pm CST
Do you think drugs change a person, are they bad for ones health, come & give your opinion on this. Well my fiance smokes pot, i make him go outside out the back to do it, & i apsolutely don't allow it near our son.He did it well before we met & im not the kinda person to make someone stop something, he knows i dont smoke it myself & respects that. & as ive told him, if its not done inside, or near our son thats ok, but if its starts to affect us financially yes i will have a problem with it.He respects that.
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10 responses
• United States
8 Dec 06
tes i do think they can thats why it didn t work out with my last boyfriend (that was so for the best)he was spending all our money on it. thats when i said thats enough so i told him that he had to choose and he choose weed so i left. i have been happy every since then im not saying leave him but if he starts to change then you should think about it and don t let all the money be spent on it.
• India
8 Dec 06
yes they r bad and r not gud for a person's health
@zirgham (602)
• Pakistan
8 Dec 06
Surely they are bad for health.
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
8 Dec 06
Yes I do believe it changes a Person and it is not good I am glad you keep it away from your Little one and try not to let him know that his Dad is taking it or he will grow up thinking it is ok
@lumanci (1111)
• Italy
8 Dec 06
he should try not to smoke in front of his/her child nymore. as you should stop smoking because the smoke kills. all it takes is seeing how many people die every year for cause of the smoke
@bobster (219)
8 Dec 06
that all sounds fair enough
@moneylee (411)
• China
8 Dec 06
@xsle84 (99)
• Philippines
8 Dec 06
Of course it changes them. they are under influence. For the sake of your son, your family make your husband stop. Don't condone his actions.
@blueman (16513)
• India
8 Dec 06
why shouldn't they be, imagine taking a medicine which was supposed to cure you of some disease or sickness and you take it regularly with you being sick or having any illness, so what do you think you will take when you really fall sick.
8 Dec 06
It sounds like your fiance has his head screwed on with smoking it. Normally (from experience here! lol) people who have smoked it for a long time tend to just smoke it on and off and not excessively. I think it's good that he's happy to go outside and not smoke it around your son. Yes, if it gets too expensive then obviously he will be smoking more and then you can say something, but as I said at the start, he seems switched on enough. I think because you respect him for him doing it that he respects you by living by your rules.