any ideas?? help!! my sister is in the middle of a divorce.. and

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she doesnt live near me but is coming up for the holidays.. she has met a very nice man but whom ive only met twice. Ifeel as if maybe my gift should be for both of them?, what do you think? i mean, i dont want to exclude him, but i dont want to make her feel as if i dont want to get her an individual gift..and i dont feel like i know him well evough to get him a gift addressed only to him.. moneys a little tight with 2 kids and i want them to both be happy and feel "at home".. any gift ideas?