What would you do if ur friend kissed your boyfriend/girlfriend..?

Indonesia
December 9, 2006 4:20am CST
i walked in on my friend kissing my boyfriend... um what the heck do i do? do i still talk to that so called friend of mine even if she apologized 1,0000000 times.. do i still talk to that so called BOYFRIEND of mine even tho he apologized 1,00000 times too? even tho my friend told me he made the first move.. and my b/f told me that she just grabbed him outta no wheree...
38 responses
@tiibbaamm (613)
• Indonesia
9 Dec 06
if something like that happens to me.. i won't give any forgiveness to both of them. especially to my boyfriend. what kind of friend could ever think about doing that to her own friend..i never thought of doing that to my friends, and what kind of boyfriend is he..having the nerve to kiss your friend. if both of them appolagized and tried to blame each other..try to make them meet each other.just watch which of them looks as if they are telling the truth.(for me, i just want to enjoy the drama that both of them are trying to create..) lol
• United States
10 Dec 06
It might be fun to get them both in the same room and call them out on it, but then again why waste a minute more of your time with these losers. Neither one of them are worth it. I would find a REAL friend and a REAL boyfriend. You definitely dont need losers like this in your life. If you choose to forgive them, then do it for YOU not them. No matter what they would both be out of my life. Does it really matter who started it? The fact is they were both involved which means they were thinking of themselves and not you. I wouldnt want those kind of people in my life. Life is WAY to short to have this in your life. It might be hard for a while, but in the end you will be much happier.
@wengulf (11)
• Vietnam
10 Dec 06
wow I will just tell them from now on they're free to kiss each other anytime and forget me as his gf and friend.
@chello63 (305)
• Philippines
10 Dec 06
ouchch.. mybe they have also an affair? i dont know what ur goin to do but i'll slap my bf for what he has done.. what if they do that when yure not around.. just ignore the friend of yours..
• India
10 Dec 06
i would be totally broken. i wud not b able 2 face these both 4 days
@adnan82 (672)
• Pakistan
10 Dec 06
forget the relationship and move forward in life.. they cannot b ur frend and bf respectively......neither u ll see them in near future...2gether...beacuse... that guy will find some 1 else..
• United States
10 Dec 06
omg if that was me they would both be cut off. I would have freaked out too. kicked his butt, then hers. but i guess i'm hostile
@shellyrios (1212)
• United States
10 Dec 06
I would pissed and hurt. I don't know which one would come out first, but I would feel betrayed.
@suren2k6cse (2621)
• India
10 Dec 06
i will tell my friend. To maintain distance with my girl friend.
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
10 Dec 06
Is their any harm if some one kiss somebody. I would not mind this as I do kiss some one girlfriends many times. One has to open in this case.
@nzk786 (453)
• India
10 Dec 06
Forget the friend, dump the boyfriend, he is the one who is to blame for not keeping his promise to you
@desai_me (275)
• India
10 Dec 06
Not possible only cause I have immense faith my boy friend and will never let tht happen only !!
• India
10 Dec 06
I vl ask my girlfriend regarding that instance, any body can kiss any one but, the thing which really matter is the intension regarding that kiss, many time s what u see and hear is not real, so just go into the depth of the matter, and solve the stuff not talking to one is absolutely the solution u should keep the faith in ur partner.
@faheem75 (57)
• India
10 Dec 06
in a relationship ...believe everthing but trust no one... believe wht u see...
• India
10 Dec 06
Well What the hell.. Both giving excuses?? As if the other was guilty? The only way i think you can handle this is By getting Both in front of each other and telling the truth. Just see who freaks out on whom:-) Seriously it'll work out. And Just imagine it may happen again or it might continue with someone else. So the best way is to get them Talking and end this chapter. No point in thinking bout it and getting emotional. Cheers Gud Luck:-)
• Singapore
10 Dec 06
if i'm in your situation, i will end the relationship with my bf immediately and that goes for the friendship as well. it's bad enough to get betrayed by a bf..and to make it worse, being cheated by a friend too!
• United States
10 Dec 06
Think about what they would have done, if you hadn't walked in on them. Rid both of them.
@Stephanie5 (2946)
• United States
10 Dec 06
I wouldn't forgive either one of them, and if you try to it will more than likely be in the back of your mind for the rest of your lives and cause you to doubt him and be untrusting, and it will cause you to argue. Or when an argument starts you will throw it in his face. I think that you should just cut your losses now before you end up walking in on them sleeping together! Hope this helped! Have a great day!
• India
10 Dec 06
i wont make it a big issue out of this stupid matter........so wat...it was just a kiss......
@zarden (107)
• Philippines
10 Dec 06
well, if its obviously doesnt mean anything, why should i react on that? we should be open minded at first, and then if this kiss really mean something more, talk to them and try to be patient and face the reality whatever offended answers they may throw on your face
• United States
10 Dec 06
I would of punched his face in! Theres no excuse shes not your friend, you dont accidentally kiss someone. It takes 2 to tango