i just broke up with my girlfriend...how do you get over it??

bro, so sad to heard about that. anywhere my suggetion is go and find a new one lah! don't just because of one tree you want to let go the whole forest ma... don't make yourself feel so hard, come on..you already name yourself "super"!!

I'm sorry you are unhappy. All you can do is stay busy and be with people. Eventually the pain will soften. Good luck.

Just get over it and enjoy life is too beautiful to be regretting for anything just move on with life

im so sorry to hear that! of course, you will need to have sometime to heal the pain...it might take days, weeks or even weeks...depend on how much you love her. dont worry, time will heal all wound....try to meet up more with your friends...so that you dont have much time thinking about your ex. hope everything is ok now. Take Care!

You have to start hanging out with other girls not anything deep at first but if you continue to do that you will get over her there is more than one girl for every man.

Just spend time to try not to think of her. Only time can help

I agree with the others, time can heal all wounds. You just have to keep yourself busy and eventually you will get over her.

thank you for creating such a great discussion.. why?? what happend... you should give time to your girlfriend..

Why did you break up with her. if you´re having a hard time getting over it - maybe you still love her and made a mistake? I do belive the best way is to activate yourself, hang out with friendas and have fun!

You dont actually get over it. You do learn and move on though. It ends up hurting less and less with time. Its just one of lifes lessons though one of the hurtful ones. Hang in there. Make yourself busy is the best advice i can give.

Oh man u have broke up and i have never met my girl friend,i have no courage to tell her that i loved her(some major problems in between),so ur situation is just opposite of mine,how can i see you breaking up with ur girlfriend,try to understand my feelings :(

I am not a professional but I want to help. I know the feeling...the pain after a break up. It almost feels there's no way one can ever move on. Because the other person has already become a significant part of one's life. "When you let go of a relationship, you have to let go of pieces of yourself as well. Bits of your history, whole chunks of time past, slivers of an earlier version of yourself." "When relationships break up, you lose more than a lover. You lose the only person who remembers the past as you do -- you lose part of yourself." Here's what I found: How to Get Over After a BreakUp Allow yourself to grieve over the loss. Grieving includes going through feelings such as sadness, anger, shock and acceptance. Take any pressure or expectations off yourself to get over it quickly. Depending on the length of the relationship or how important it was to you, you may need weeks, months or longer to get over it. Take care of yourself. Get adequate rest, eat right and get some exercise. Nurture yourself. Give yourself permission to relax, take it easy, and do whatever makes you feel better - such as taking walks, baths or naps; listening to music; reading; or watching movies. Plan pleasurable activities with friends or family ahead of time (especially on weekends) to keep you busy and get your mind off the loss. Consider joining a support group to be with others dealing with similar feelings. Ask your doctor for a referral. Talk to your doctor about possibly taking medication if you're having trouble sleeping, or if you're experiencing anxiety or depression. Or discuss the options of herbal supplements such as St. John's wort (for depression) or kava kava (for anxiety). Get a journal and write down what you have learned from the relationship about yourself, relationships and life. ***If the relationship was very significant for you, you may never get over it in the sense of having no residual feelings about it. Over time, the feelings will become less intense and you will be able to think about the relationship without it being so painful.

i think u should always engage with some work....& try 2 overcome frm this situation..!!

I CANT TELL.i am in a similar situation dude

You broke up with her and YOUR having the hard time getting over it? well, maybe thats a sign u did the wrong thing. if you miss her maybe you should try to fix the situation and admit to her u were wrong and appologize.. hopefully she will be forgiving.. maybe she would continue on with a friendship so that she can still remain in your life but just not with the attachments a relationship carries.. I dont know what the cause of the breakup is but if your having a hard time it could mean there is love there. do what your heart says that way you dont have to live a life of regret..