are there limitations in falling in love?

@maryannemax (12156)
Sweden
December 9, 2006 11:32am CST
when you fall in love, do you have to put on some boundaries on loving? or you just love.. and totally love a person for who he/she is? will you ever try to change the person you love for the better or will you be happy as he is?
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7 responses
@rahulg007 (382)
• India
10 Dec 06
hey if u love some one then u love him wat he/she is like u should even think of changing him. and well as far as i think there is no limitation there to fall in love
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
10 Dec 06
yep. if you love someone, you won't try and change that person but you will love him/her for who that person is.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
On the first time that I have been in a relationship I give all my love to my partner and I don't left any love for my self so when we got break up I feel that its also the end of my world so I decided that I will just give that kind of love to the right person or to the person that I will live with forever. I also don't want to change the person that I love because I already love them with that character and in the day that I love them I also learn how to love the bad and good things that they got.
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
26 Feb 07
i do belive that if you really love someone you love him for who he is, but you are bound to change eachother with time. All people learn to adjust to eachother and both parts change - to be able to suit eachother better. I do love with all my heart - atleast now. In the beginning i was very careful.
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
I think there should have to be a boundary, especially when you're not married yet. I think if we're to love someone, we have to think and measure things up before putting all our trusts to our partners. Because I think there's still no assurance if their feelings would be the same just like ours', even couples who are already married also has a 50/50 chance of separating one another. So I guess, it's up to us on how we should make the person change to live a life with a happy-ending..
@kagandahan (1327)
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
just make sure you don't fall in love with your 2nd degree relatives. also avoid the people your friends already love.it would make things very much complicated. also avoid someone who is already in a relationship. love yourself before loving others.give yourself the love you need so you will be loved in return.
• Pakistan
26 Feb 07
No there is no limitation or boundaries to love someone...it is the best feeling of the word that born in ur heart widout ur control....well love only means to give not take i think bcoz love not a mean feeling....
@sechsey (1831)
• Canada
26 Feb 07
I dont think i want to change the person i love according to how i want him to be because then that would be chnaging someone i fell in love with to some ideal guy in my head. Besides, those qualities that i see in him now are the very qualities and personality that i feel in love with in him. If i have happened to change his ways i hope he was willing for the benefit of our relationship and not just because i want it this way. And i truly hope as well that it is for the better and not for the worst. Im happy the way my husband is now. He is an amazing guy with his own flaws but still simply one of a kind:)