Bullies at school

Australia
December 9, 2006 8:33pm CST
My 13 yr old is being emotionally bullied at school...The teachers say there is nothing they can do...I say thats crap. has it happened to your family? If so,how did you fix it?
7 responses
• United States
10 Dec 06
here in Chgo it is against the law for bullying. That teacher is lying because that kid could be suspended,expelled or transferred from the school. I would notify the school board,an attorney and tell that principal that you will file charges against her,the school board and that boys parents for not doing anything and for xcausing your son emotional and mental stress.
• Australia
10 Dec 06
I ma not sure about bullying laws in Australia...but I will look into it,thankyou:)
• United States
10 Dec 06
New York has this law as well, if you bully, discriminate etc. you will be suspeneded or expelled.
• United States
12 Dec 06
The other girls might just be jealous of her. You need to bypass the school and speak with the girls parents. Request a conference with the girls parents and try to get the issue resolved that way. Go to school with your daughter one day and ask her who it is. Approach the girls and tell them you want to speak with a parent or to stop bullying your daughter. Thats how I would handle it.
• Australia
13 Dec 06
I think I would be too worried it might make it worse if I did that :(
• United States
10 Dec 06
You need to ask yourself why your 13 year old is being "emotionally bullied" .. Is it something he/she is doing? Is is because of something she/he tends to say? Find out her/his actions in school..Maybe there are things going on that you are not aware of?
• Australia
10 Dec 06
I have already looked into what she has been doing,all teachers and the year advisor say she is innocent of doing anything wrong.There is just one girl who is intent on making my daughters life hell,and we have no idea why.
• United States
10 Dec 06
There is nothing worse than a bully! I'd say go to the parents - but your daughter is a little too old for that to work. The teachers are wrong. They should be talking to these bullies and telling them to stop or face the consequences. Bullying is a big thing nowadays, and something should be done to stop it.
• Australia
10 Dec 06
I cant stand bullies,they make me sick..no,I dont think going to the parents would help,and I think the teachers are wrong too.Thanks for your comment :)
• United States
10 Dec 06
I am so sorry this is happening, school can be so great but so sad. Bullying is something serious and can cause your child emotional, social problems. Talk to him/her ask him/her what they are bullying him/her about and if nothing can be done you might consider moving to a better place, homeschooling your child.
• Australia
10 Dec 06
Have been considering changing schools..its general name calling,nothing specific..although some of it is racial
11 Dec 06
That school is rubbish. Every school should take bullying seriously and have an anti-bullying policy. If they continue to refuse to do anything then you should go to the local press and publicise their failure to help your child. Our local paper has stories about kids being bullied all the time. Sometimes the only thing that gets the school moving is to be shamed in public into doing something.
• Australia
12 Dec 06
hmmm,something to think about,thanks :)
• Canada
14 Dec 06
I was actually bullied when I was younger, both emotionally and physically. At that time there were no laws, either provincially or federally (I'm in Canada) against bullying. It was treated as "Oh, let the kids work it out themselves," even if it was incredibly hurtful. When the bullying turned physical, my parents called the school right away. The girls who were bullying me got called into the principal's office, had to appologise to me, and received detention for a week. Because the abuse was physical, they could do something about. Nowadays in Canada, some jurisdictions do have laws against bullying, but it varies from area to area. I'd investigate further with the principle of your school and the superintendents (or what ever their title may be) for your school district. In this day and age, there must be some sort of regulations on the school district's books regarding bullying. Good luck to you! Your child is very lucky to have a parent like you to help them. :) ~Wyrdsister