how would you deal on everyday stress

5 kids are a lot dear to handle single handedly.I will firstly get someonme to help me around.I have done this when I had my second one this year.I do the work but the lady just comes and keeps the baby engaged while I am cooking or taking bath.I don't mind paying her for that.get a baby sitter first.You really need it.It must be in your essential expenditure list.Pay her extra get out ofthe house and go to a spa or parlour get yourself a body massage or a facial.I think this will go a long way in reviving you.Even once in a month will be enough.I often listen to the music to relieve myself of stress. Especially when my baby is sleeping. You can take them all to park and let them play there if they are old enough but take someone along to keep an eye on them. Lady I marvel you for even handeling them alone this long.How old are they?